help...ive fallen for my best friend...what should i do?

ok...im in kind of an awkward situation here, and im really in need of advise!!! theres this guy, and when i first met him, i never though we'd be anything more than friends. but as i got to know him better, all that changed. i feel like i can talk to him about anything, like i dont have to act differently around him....he's always there for me, and he's always the frst person i go to when i need advise...no one's ever made me feel this way...im so completely confused!!! and i dont know if he feels the same about me...should i tell him how i feel? or should i just be happy that we're friends? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me, i have no idea what to do!!! thanx :)

"i feel like i can talk to him about anything"

Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel, there's a possibility he feels the same way. If you guys are good friends, then it shouldn't be too awkward if he only wants to be friends. I mean, you can deal with that right? just being friends? because you shouldn't go in thinking he'll be more than that, be prepared for both answers. Key thing is to talk to him about it, and let him know how you feel.

Guys aren't mind readers, we will never know what you are thinking. Hints won't work, obvious hints won't work, just tell us.

Good luck :)

Depends. What do you want? Do you want a relationship? Do you want things to be how they are forever? Do you want more? Commitment? These are all questions you need to settle on your own before you start to do anything hasty.

If you want a relationship, then you should tell him how you feel. If you don't want one, then continue on your current path and enjoy yourself. I don't know anything about this guy, but if he is willing to listen to you so much, I'd bet that he cares for you.

thanks guys...i know i should b able to tell him, cause it is tru i can talk 2 him about anything...:)

Very true people...just tell him...i love what you said..."Hints won't work"...that is very true...

im just scared i'll ruin things between us...but i dont know...we are good friends, so even if he doesnt feel the same, things between us shouldnt change...

Live without regrets

OMG im going threw the same thing rite now.. and i dont know what to do either.. it suck carring about some1 sooo much and they have no idea

and it's so hard to know whether you should b happy with what you've got or wonder if it could be something more...haha, so if u need sum1 to talk 2, i'm always around!

ok you seriously remind me of me last year. ok so i fell for my best friends in 7th grade (2 years ago) and then the year went by and we became closer and we talked more and i felt like i could tell him nething that i needed to. But he didnt like me but i still liked him. Well then 8th grade came and i finally told him how i felt about him but he of course broke my heart but i still couldnt help but luv him. Well near the middle of the year i found out i was going to have to move. and i told him and he promised we would be friends 4ever and then the end of the year came and he told me he liked me to(dream come true right?) well i stayed a little while longer while my brother and my mom moved all the stuff to our new place (i stayed w/ my grandparents) well my grandparents have this pool right? and so everyday he would come over and come swimming and we would make-out while my grandma wasnt looking. I was the happiest person alive!! Then i had to leave go w/ my mom and brother. He said goodbye after we finished "swimming" (lol) And i left. we kept in touch everything was great...i bet your thinking this is going to be a happy ending right? well he IMed me last september and was yelling at me for no apperant reason idk wat i did i just dont know and he told me he was glad i moved and he never wanted to talk to me again. And we havent talked since. Its the worst feeling in the world cuz i still think about him and i still love him but he hates me. I dont know if that helped at all but i thought i would let you know that i was in the same situation

~nikki :'(