Why?

Why do we fall in love with someone, but that someone has fallen for someone else?

I just recently told the the one I adore how I feel, but the feeling was not returned. After the conversation I had no control over my emotions so just broke down and cried. Cried til it hurts. I don't understand what am I suppose to do now. I have lost hope and feeling down.

Your profile says that you're a 1 year old. Stop looking for relationships at such a ridiculous age. And stop knowing how to type.

Just kidding.

Cheer up, or rather, do your best to. It's not going to happen for a while, but the thing you need to realize is that you moving on is a greater force than you being miserable about this... it just takes longer. So you're going to suffer for a bit, and if you dwell on it then it will take longer, but in the end time will let your feelings pass on.

dont lose hope! im pretty sure this happens to everyone at some point in their lives. its even happened to me a couple of times. you just have to be strong, which i know you can be, dont say you cant be strong. or.. you can try and make them feel the same, but im not gonna kid you, that rarely works. there are so many other people out there just waiting for someone like you to come along, so dont limit yourself to one person! and dont cry... this is destiny's way of telling you that this isnt the one, that you just have to wait and they'll come, dont worry. if you need someone to talk to, im here. promise. just mail me from my profile. i promise i'll answer.

Thanks for the encouragements. I can't seem to just firgure out why. This girl really meant something to me. She is the first person I have actually fell in love, also the first person I have cried for. Just don't understand why I feel so miserable. I just pray I have for the strength to move on from this.

Well you definitely have the strength to move on eventually. There is nothing wrong about feeling miserable for a bit, go ahead and wallow. There's a time for mourning and a time for getting off your butt. Right now, you can be sad all you want.