IM FALLING for MY BEST FRIEND

  • tripoutgirl
    18 years ago

    I NEED SOME HELP!!!

    mE AND MY BEST FRIEND ARE LIKE CLOSE BUT I WANT TO GET CLOSER. WELL ONE DAY WE WENT OUT BUT ENDED BRAKING UP BECAUSE IT FELT WEIRD. NOW WE ARE STILL FRIENDS AND ITS BEEN A YEAR SINCE WE WENT OUT, I MOVED BUT SUDDENLY I FEEL LIKE THE ONLY PLACE I WANT TO BE IS WITH HIM, BUT LATELY HES BEEN MEAN AND I WISH I COULD TELL HIM HOW I FEEL, MY MOM SAYS I CAN MOVE BACK BUT IT FEELS LIKE THERE IS NOTHING REALLY TO MOVE BACK TO SO I HAVE TO MAKE A CHOISE WETHER TO MOVE BACK OR STAY.
    SO BASICALLY I WANT TO KNOW HOW CAN I TELL THE PERSON I LOVE HOW I FEEL AND SHOULD I MOVE BACK OR STAY?

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    first of all, why would you think that posting in all caps would make anyone more likely to read your post? repost it in normal-speak and I'll answer it for you.

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    I wouldn't answer this because it's all in caps? Like what the...

    But, Don't take it further. If his your best friend. Leave it at that. I've been there and done that. And, it basically ruined the friendship. But it might work out for you.. I don't know.. :/

    `Taleee. xx.

  • tripoutgirl
    18 years ago

    I Need Some Help!!!

    me And my best friend are like close
    but I want to get closer well one day we
    Went out but ended braking up because it felt weird
    Now we are still friends and its been a year since we went out,
    I moved but suddenly I feel like the only
    Place I want to be is with him, but lately he has been mean and I wish
    I could tell him how I feel my mom says I can move back but I feel like there is nothing to really go back to so I have to make a choice weather to move back or stay
    So basically I want to know how can I tell the person I love how I feel and should I move or stay?

    better?

  • Ashley
    18 years ago

    Stay, If you already had a bad experience while dating him it is likely that that will happen again, you have already moved, make new friends and than you will always meet another boythat you will like =) especially since your 'best friend' has been mean to you..

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    Yes, much better, thanks!

    "how can I tell the person I love how I feel and should I move or stay?"

    Telling the person you love how you feel should be easy. Figuring out how you feel is harder. No where in the rest of your post do you mention love, and I think it was better off that way. I don't think you should say you love him, and I think you need to consider the possiblity that you don't love him, you're just afraid of letting go and moving on with the rest of your life.

    I think you should stay where you are get make new friends, find a new guy, and get going with the future.

  • Poetess Lana
    18 years ago

    i agree and disagree with sean allen...

    If you love him, tell him you like him, dont come right out with love. my heart has been broken too many times because of that. Stay where you are, as they say, "distance makes people wise", and if he likes you the way you like him, he will come to you. make new friends, meet new people, if he doesnt like you, find someone else.

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    "i agree and disagree with sean allen...

    If you love him, tell him you like him, dont come right out with love."

    You misunderstood me. When people say that they love someone, I automatically assume that they've gone through all the things that would lead them to love them, including an open relationship. When I said it shouldn't be hard to say what you feel, I didn't mean confession-wise, I mean in general, like whether you're unhappy about this or having doubts about that.

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    Ok well here is how I feel.

    You tried it once...it didn't work.
    You moved away.
    You're 16.
    You live in Cali.

    Where does it make sense for you to move back to a guy that you aren't even sure feels the same way, and you also don't even know if the relationship will work or not since it failed once already....??

    I think that you should enjoy the fact that you are 16 years old, and live in Cali, and find someone that is right for you. That guy might be a great friend, but maybe that is why you miss him...because he's your best friend!!!! I wouldn't let it go anywhere past that if you ask me.

  • tripoutgirl
    18 years ago

    thanks everyone you guys really helped
    *EH
    :)

  • i love danny
    18 years ago

    wow so am i well i usted to b but then i was a fraid he wuldnt like me but turnd=s out he did an we r goin out it is kul can u look at my things an awnser to em