Love Help!!!!

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    OMG like there is this girl I'm totally in love with but she won't pay attention to me and I don't know if I should tell her how I feel or if I should just forget about it we used to be good friends but since high school we haven't been able to talk and I just don't know what to do help meeeeeee

    Just kidding.

    I'm returning home this Saturday, and I want to hang out with my girlfriend a lot. I have a tendency to like planning things in my head ahead of time, and I have some date ideas, but I was wondering if people had more/wanted to troubleshoot the ones I have.

    note:
    It might be useful to know that I live in Southern California, near the beach.

    My ideas:

    -Take her to a Jazz Club
    -Go to a nice dinner
    -Have brunch at the Koffee Kart
    -walking by the beach
    -Disneyland (maybe... i hate lines)
    -actual beach time, of course
    -ice skating
    -laser tagging
    -going to some movies
    -watching some dvds (she really wants to see brokeback mountain... i'm not sure what THAT'S supposed to mean... =P)...(we'd do this at home)

    *edit*
    -have a picnic in the park
    -beach at evening (possibly 4th of July fireworks)
    -walk around the mall (we've done it, and we like laughing at stuff we'd never buy, and buying her stuff she doesn't think she'd ever be able too, haha...)

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    OMG like there is this girl I'm totally in love with but she won't pay attention to me and I don't know if I should tell her how I feel or if I should just forget about it we used to be good friends but since high school we haven't been able to talk and I just don't know what to do help meeeeeee

    ^^^^Lmao!! ..Hm.. But those idea's are good. =) ..Why don't you go surfing? Can people surf at the beach there?

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    Yesh they can. My girlfriend isn't much of a surfer, but I guess we could make a few dates out of trying to make her one. She might end up embarassed....

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    Surfing's fun. But, yeah. She might get a bit embarressed at first..

    Hmmm. I'll come back when I can think of something. =)

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    Oh and as a side addition to the original post:

    Has anyone heard the song "luckiest" by Ben Folds? I know that's random compared to what I posted originally... but consider it an add-on to the topic. Heh.

  • Dre4meR
    18 years ago

    I am more of a romantic date kind of guy. I like just to kept it classic and maybe have a twist for a surprise. I would suggest these ideas. ice skating, Go to a nice dinner, walking by the beach(just a short walk on the beach, just talking and see how it goes)

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    I think the beach is a great idea. Instead of taking her out for dinner, why not prepare a evening picnic on the beach (or somewhere quiet or romantic you can think of), and follow it up with a walk on the beach. I also think lazer tag is a way to have fun so that's something to consider.

  • Sunflower
    18 years ago

    OMG!!! Wanna take me out?!? :P lol. J/K. That sounds amazing. What you have is perfect. Btw, love the joke, you're lucky I saw the "just kidding" because when I read the first line, I was like, "please.." Anyways, yeah, what you put, amazing. You seem like a nice guy, she must be a lucky girl.

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    "Instead of taking her out for dinner, why not prepare a evening picnic on the beach"

    YES. Hahaha, sorry for the caps, I had forgotten picnics, that was another idea I had! Thank goodness. I was thinking a picnic at pollywog park (a place in my city), since beaches have sand and whatnot... Maybe I can get her to the beach for the 4th of July fireworks, that'd be nice.

  • Aken Sol
    18 years ago

    Psh. she's not THAT lucky. Just kidding Sean :)

    I say you take her out to watch some wrestling, and some monster truck rallys! Also, i say bring her to parties and dance clubs. Oh, oh, i know this really great bar around the area that should be fine. Actually, did i mention strip clubs. It's a great experience to share together. Magic Mountain is xtreme!!

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    You're a bad person 'aken'. =p

    Magic Mountain... we went there twice and went on one ride each time, lol...

    strip clubs = dumb
    bar = (we're under 21)
    monster truck rallys+ wrestling = .... my girlfriend doesn't have testosterone pouring out of her ears 'aken'...

    sheesh 'aken', and to think you even know my girlfriend personally!

  • Aken Sol
    18 years ago

    dude, dude that's why when you go to magic mountain this time you get to go on more rides! XD

    what's wrong with strip clubs?

    actually...I think it'd be a great idea if you enter your girlfriend into a mud wrestling competition. that'd be soooo sweet!

    but if you don't like those suggestions, how about...

    Aken Sol

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    Sigh.

    Anyone have any more reasonable suggestions?

  • Aken Sol
    18 years ago

    Well... I think they're reasonable. Oh! Board games rock. Play Twister! it's such a good game.

    Aken Sol

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    Oh wise minds of P&Q, why have you forsaken me?

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    All the things on my list are, most certainly, going to happen. Anything else I should add to it?

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    Ye-eah. Sean, I think you have enough planned lol

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    Psh, fine. This thread is now complete! Thanks for the input everyone.