My friends hav dumped me on the sidewalk

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    my best friend now has a boyfriend. that guy and i were good friends. we wnet 2 school together and now they hav kinda dumped me. they still talk 2 me and everything but to find anything out about their life takes a million ?s from me. i dunno what 2 do anymore. the "boyfriend" insists that he's not taking my best friend away from me but he really is and they won't admit 2 the changes that r there now.

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

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    Do you think that something about that is wrong? Let them be happy. You must have other friends, right? Those two are currently occupied, let them be. Get other people to talk to.

  • Sunflower
    18 years ago

    It's not like they are meaning to do that. When I started seeing my present boyfriend, we hung out little bits of a time, and then it slowly grew and grew. It was not like we both 'ditched' our friends. We still go see them once and a while. No worry's. She still cares about you as a friend. Try and see if you can have a day where you two hang out. (Like Saturdays, or at lunch, etc)

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    i do hav other friends but these two r my closest. and i do give them space. but thanx 4 the comment.

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    There's not much you can do.

    I remember when I was with my ex Matt. All my friends were always telling me that they never got to see me anymore. But, They did.

    I was at school at the time. And, he was 19. I only saw him after school and on the weekends. But, I still got to see my friends during school.

    If you wanna spend more time with them. Don't force them to choose over you and their boyfriends. Prob will just cause fights. Invite them out places every now and then, Or even invite your friends and their boyfriends, and another friend out somewhere. So then you get to see your other friends a bit.

    Sorry if I'm not much help though. =) I hope everything goes well.