bf cant say he loves me, is there a problem??

  • nikki
    20 years ago

    ok, i was with my bf and hes 2 yrs younger than me and weve been going out for about 2 week now. hes already fingerd me and things are really gd!! problem is today he brought up the sunject of age difference and i said it doesnt matter cause i love you, he runs offf. i talk to his mate who was stod right next to me and i say, why does he run off everytime wen i say he loves me, i start to walk off and start cryin. now ofcourse he follows me and he cuddles me just right and he looks into my eyes and says wats wrong, i say nothing and he says, tell me wats wrong. i told him that wen eva i tell him ow i feel he runs away and he goes and tells me he dopesnt tell anyone he loves em. i talked dis over wid my mate and she says its true, she says he does love me he just doesnt say it. should i be worried that he doesnt say it. why doesnt he. my mam thinks its cause hes only young and doesnt have those kinda feelings, that sounded so stupied, but is she right?? please help me, nikki xXx thank you so much!!

  • Sean Allen
    20 years ago

    I think he wants to be honest, and is confused about his feelings. I think deep down inside he really does love you, and that he is totally capable of feeling it, but he isn't sure if he can say it, or if what he is feeling is really love. Give him time, it has only been two weeks.

  • nikki
    20 years ago

    i know war u r saying but the matter is he has never said it to anyone, excluding his family which i have no idea about. he's had alot of gf's and had said it to no one, he must have been in love once, right?

  • Kevin J
    20 years ago

    Yea, I totally sean. Give it time. Just because he does'nt say he loves you does not mean he does'nt have strong feelins for you. A lot ppl take the word "Love" really serious, and will only say it, when absolutely mean it ;)

    Don't stress it, enjoy what you have :)