butterflies

have you ever been so in love with someone that your tummy is in knots? is it suposed to be in knots?

my 1st and i 4th bf i had that feeling really bad but with the others i have had nothing like it at all....

....so my question is did i give up on love? twice?

i used to feel it with my present bf but now thats gone-i think because we have settled down and are now comfortable with each other.

i love my past bf's in a way still and i know i love my present bf but im really confused so please help.

october xx

It could be anything, it could be nerves, it could be a feeling of love. Since you're a bit older that some of these kids, I give you more respect. Hopefully your relationships last longer, and have more meaning. Settling down is good, and even if you don't feel the butterflies in your stomach doesn't mean there isn't anything there. Sparks exist in different areas of a relationship, it could be talking, kissing, being together, anything. So don't count love out just yet.

i know i love him-i have to-if i didnt i dont think i would be with him.....

....its just me and him have had really rough ride lately, and im wondering if it really is love or if i have confused it for lust for a very long time.

at one point i couldnt take my eyes off him, and all i wanted was to be with him,i just dont know any more.

thanx for respect-means alot

october xx

"i know i love him"

^^ If you know you love him, don't question it. If you put doubt in your mind, then you will start falling apart.

Hmmm... I wish I could feel butterflys =( Lol

Gosh...These butterflies are such a pain sometimes...

^^

I agree

They are

October, I am going through the same thing with my boyfriend. All I can say is, just remember how you felt when you first got together...and know you felt that way for a reason! Everyone has butterflies and is thrilled when they first fall in love, but then reality hits them and you know what? You still care about your partner, but the butterflies aren't there anymore because it's not NEW and exciting. Just because you don't have butterflies anymore does not mean you don't love them anymore. I would trust your feelings and trust yourself. If you think you still love him, then you do love him. Everyone questions their love at some point or another. It is human nature to be unsure about important things. Maybe all you need is a week apart from eachother. My boyfriend just left for a week and came home two days ago. When I saw him again, I fell in love all over again. So sometimes a short time away from eachother is all it takes. You could take a short trip with one of your girlfriends? Go visit family for a week? I would not tell him WHY you want to go on a short trip, just trust that it will make both of you happier when you see eachother again.

My butterflies are such a pain.. they wont stop fluttering around in meh tummeh...

-sigh-

-Kurt-

xLaurenx

arwen- supose you could be right........

.....i think it is all cumming clear to me now though...still abit unsure but hey thats what life is, isnt it...

october xx

HEY EVERYONE-JUST TO LET YOU ALL KNOW..... THE LAD I THOUGH I LOVED DOESNT LOVE ME, HE LEFT ME SAYING I WASNT FOR REAL-HE WENT BACK TO HIS X-SHE GOT INSIDE HIS HEAD AND F----D IT GOOD AND PROPER, SHE TOLD ME SHE GOING TO GET PREG WITH HIM SO HE WONT EVER LEAVE HER FOR ME AGAIN......DONT MATTER WHAT I SAY TO HIM HE WONT LISTEN TO ME.....TOLD HIM I LOVED HIM AND HE DIDNT BELEIVE ME-BECAUSE OF HER!

(sorry for big caps-but needed to get attention)
no more love posting for me

xx thanx 4 reading xx

october xx

well, so much for those gut feelings. I guess you need to learn to know someone before you say you love them. Because you definitely didn't see that one coming. It will teach you to never jump to conclusions, and never jump into a relationship and start saying 'i love you'. Because true love takes time, and it always needs to be worked on. The butterflies in your belly, that's just a feeling.
When you actually fall in love, it becomes something more.

hey october, that guy sounds like a real jerk anyway. too bad you weren't the one to leave him...teach him a lesson. i hope his "x" which is now his girlfriend is infertile or something. promise me if he comes crawling back to you, you'll kick him in the face? sorry for my previous advice, i suppose it didn't help at all.

yeah ok arwen......maybe not his face but i can reach to kick him in knackers....

october xx

knackers?...that is such a cruel and violent abuse...:/

hahaha

see what he has done to me then tell me if he deserves it...!?

october xx