So sick

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    I'm so sick of being single. Especially since my close friends have boyfriends, and a lot of the people I hang out with have boyfriends too. And usually they're all over eachother, and it's all "I love you" "I love you too". I don't tell them how I feel, just becuase I don't wanna offend anyone. Is there a way I can feel better about being single?

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    Eh, I get like that too. Whenever there's people around me all in love. I get so jelous.{is that how you spell it}

    But, I dunno. Spose you could just try and be happy for them? eh, I dunno..

  • Lost & Delirious
    18 years ago

    I'm so sick about that too!!!!!

    It sucks, I wish I could help you, but I have the same problem.

    XoXo
    Gaby

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    If I figure out a way to solve the problem I'll let you know

  • Kara !
    18 years ago

    As crazy as this sounds, I simply refuse to do the 'love' thing until I feel completely ready. I have a lot of emotional problems and trust issues so I choose to stay single.

    I do get jealous of my friends sometimes, but I know I'm doing the right thing for the meantime, and just reminding myself that, then I'm not bothered anymore.

    And anyway, since I decided I need to be alone, I've met so many amazing people - single people - so I don't have to be left with my friends that are in relationships.

    Anyway - I suggest always thinking positive. What if you were in a relationship and Brad Pitt walked through the door - nothing you could do then, right?

  • Dre4meR
    18 years ago

    ^^ :(

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    Yeah that's all true...
    I don't know, I guess I'd just feel better if there was a chance that I could have a boyfriend, instead of having crushes on guys that think of me as "just a friend"
    Gosh people need to stop saying that (lol)

  • Vegetable
    18 years ago

    I hate being single until I get another boyfriend then we break up and i want to be in a relationship again....

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    All i can say is instead of hating it and feeling sorry for yourself, put yourself out there. Flirt with guys, and be yourself. A guy is going to come along. You may wind up having more then one guy like you and you like all of them as well. That's the bad thing. It takes time. When you least expect it, it will happen.