Allen!!!!???

  • Just Val
    20 years ago

    Hey guess what?? It didn't work!! I tried telling him and person but I started crying and then he did too!! And he said he wanted me to stay with him but I had to go home so I couldn't!! And that couldve been my chance!! What do I do now???

  • Allen
    20 years ago

    :( it didn't work??? I don't know what to say... he wanted you to stay... and he cried... so I would guess he has feelings for you... am I right??? And if thats the case, you can always talk to him again :) ...maybe you can try and ask him out to somewhere, eg a walk in the park or on the beach.. you know, somewhere where you can talk heart to heart without having to be interrupted... Right now thats the suggestion I can think of... don't feel down Valerie...

  • Just Val
    20 years ago

    YES!!! He does HAVE feelings for me but I truly believe he is scared.....of getting hurt I guess!! I mean you should read his poems that he wrote for me, there is two of them he has them on this site check under his name Edgar Pineda, they will come up...Well, I wish....I wish he would let me see his love again, because he is trying to hide it so much!! God, I don't get it, he loves me but why is he hiding it??

  • Allen
    20 years ago

    :) hey, I just read his poem, those are one of the sweetest poem I have ever read, and they are written for YOU. Even tho those were written 2 months ago, surely feelings won't die during this time... I guess he is just scared for whatever the reason. Im guessing you left him for another guy a short while back... am I right?? if yes, he could be still hurt/scared from it... I don't really know what happened with you guys.... but anyway, I would say, help him to find his love for you, spending quality times, sharing hearts thought normally does the trick... I don't know why he wants to hide his feelings... Im not a mind reader... neither are you... unless you ask him or he reveals it himself, the answer will stay unknown...

  • Just Val
    20 years ago

    Well, I will explain what happened with us in an email (* I don't want the world to know) but I was with my baby's father for a while but not with him with him I just lived by him you know? But of course he thought I was WITH him you know?? So I think he feels like if I am "playing him" but I am not, I would NEVER do anything to hurt him. I have never EVER felt the way I feel for him for any other person, I am so whipped. LOL. I will admit it. But I have loved him so much for so long, and he told me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me those feelings don't just go away do they?

  • Allen
    20 years ago

    :( In my opinion feelings do go away for various reasons... they may fade with time or they can be covered by pain... but they don't fade fast :) sometimes thats a good thing and sometimes bad... Have you told him what exactly you are feeling and thinking, he's no mind reader neither you know ;)... I think maybe this is could be a case of misunderstanding... I hope this is, if so, once cleared out everything will be great :)

  • Just Val
    20 years ago

    Oh I hope so too!! LOL, I really NEED him LOL, you know what I mean? I have tried to tell him, remember I told you? But I started crying!!
    Wat can I do so i won't cry?
    I mean it just hurts so much that I can't help but crying not to mention that I am very extremely sensitive!!

  • Allen
    20 years ago

    Hehe, don't worry Valerie, a little cry will be much of a problem, if he cares, which I believe he does, he won't mind you crying at all ;) besides, most guys soften up when girls starts to cry :) ... I do, not sure about him :D okay... sometimes when you see the one you love face to face you 'forgets' what you wanted to say... maybe you can write down your feelings, thoughts and what you want to tell him before hand on a piece of note... pull it out if you are crying too hard and can't think of what to say... :/ I don't know, I have never done it or seen it been done before, that idea just suddently jumped into my head... only use it if you see fits :)

  • Just Val
    20 years ago

    LOL, yea he always is like "dont cry" and I can tell he feels bad you know? So I think I need to get him at the exact right moment...and wen we can be alone too!!
    SO how are you and that one girl duing? Did you even tell you how YOU felt yet??
    I hope you did!!
    See though another problem with this guy though is that he is so DAMN stubborn!!

  • Allen
    20 years ago

    Hehe, waiting for the exact right moment ;) sounds like a perfect plan :) I wish you all the best and hope everything works out for you :D:D:D Hmmm... as for me, nope, I haven't reveal my feelings to that girl yet... life is a bit depressing when I think about that issue... lol, now the table turns, and Im the one in need of love advise :D I am too waiting for the perfect moment... but there are so many things in the way... :(

  • Just Val
    20 years ago

    I know wat u mean completely:( I wish you too the best of luck!:)
    LOL, I think wen the time is right you will have your moment...
    As will I!!

  • Allen
    20 years ago

    hehehe, certainly, I hope when the time is right, everything will turn out good... and I hope thats not a lie as I put it in the poem I wrote ;)

  • Just Val
    20 years ago

    Yea I hope when the time is right everything works out for you.........and ME!! LOL. I am gonna e-mail you soon, sorry I haven't had a chnace! LOL

  • Vanessa
    20 years ago

    It seems ironic coz when i saw the title...i thought someone was inlove with allen but i guess the other way round...lol...

    Nessa