Which one your lover or your friend with benefits?

ok so i'm going out with this guy but i like my guyfriend more, but my guyfriend would only want to be friends with benefits. So do i choose the guy who wants an actual relationship who i don't like as much, or my guyfriend who i like a lot but he only wants friends with benefits?

Choose the guy who wants you for an actual relationship.

`Taleee.xx.

yeah definitely the relationship guy or none...when the friend says he just wants the benefits it means he wants to be free to fool around with other people xx

Neither. Don't date someone if you have stronger feelings for someone else. It's a really terrible idea.

And as you already have feelings for the 'guy with benefits' you'll only end up getting hurt when he decides he's had enough/meets another girl, or simply refuses to have a relationship with you.

^^agree.
it isnt fair to the other guy if you like your guyfriend more plus your guy friend should WANT YOU he shouldnt want just the Benefits!

you would just end up getting hurt with him.

^^ agree
If you choose the guy that just wants to mess around, that's wrong because he just wants to use you. You will end up hurt.

It wouldn't be fair to stay with the guy who actually wants a relationship either because you don't really like him. It's is as if you are using him. Don't play with a guys emotions, it's not right. Don't choose either one. Move on. There are a bunch of other guys out there.

I like the guy that wants an actual relationship i like him alot too..its just i like my guyfriend a little more.

If you like your guy friend a little more and your guy friend doesn't want a relationship then don't date either. You'd probably get confused.

Well why chose either if you like them both? Why would you even consider being with a guy who just wants to be friemds with benefits? I think that's just wrong. If you really want to chose then you have to decide what you want. Just a friend with benefits. Or a guy who really cares about you and wants to be in an actual relationship. If you are having a hard time and don't know which to chose. Don't chose any, it's that simple.

Do you feel the same way about your guyfriend now as you did when you first met your boyfriend? If so, id stay with the guy youre with already because the thing with your friend will faze out and you wont be as close because he wont make a relationship out of it. Are you close with your boyfriend now? because sometimes thats more important than the actual loved up feeling you might have for your friend xx

neither......
why be in a relationship if ur not happy...? ur only forcin yourself...to end up misserable..

and friends wit benifits...thats jus an eazy way for a guy to get wat he wants and then leave it as he wants....and youll only get hurt...cuz eventually you'll end up either likin him much more..knowin u will never have a relationship with him, or you'll begin to hate him because youll find out he has more "friendz with benifits"

but really no one can tell you...this is a decision your really gonna have to think on....