the other woman (i need advice)

It depends on whether you consider online dating really "dating" someone. If you do then yeah you'd be the other woman. In my opinion if you gave him that choice and he still hasn't made up his mind he isn't worth your time. But if you really wanna be with him, I guess try and give him time, and tell him exactly exacly how you feel about him. That's all the advice I have, hopefully it helps.

As long as what you're doing makes you happy

I am so sorry to hear that. I know I would be so upset, and hurt. I personal would consider higher in ending it. I feel that if it is true love, nothing, nobody can come between that. You don't want him to pick you, then 10 years down the road find out he is still chatting with her secretly. It would hurt. Again, sorry to hear this. Hope it all works out for you.

If he can't make a decision, then you have to make it for him. Either you stay and put up with it or you leave.

i think it's be better by telling him dat..online relationship r sooo..not gonna be true..tell him like ppls who you chat wid..can be also very dfferent..

well it's ur choice

Go tell him to stick his PC up his backside.

ive been in that position, the guy who i went out with and fell in love with, later on started liking this online chick, and he started pushing me to the side, for the girl he never saw, and he now thinks he's in love with her, and he hardly even notices me, like he does but not like before. its so hard and heart breaking but to tell u the truth i was in a situation where i was stuck cause he never met her and they were like about 1000 miles apart too, but i always had faith in my love that no matter that online girl cant get him... but then at times im like eh i dont give ish! and id cry all night. now he founds out the girl he loved so much loves someone else, and he's so hurt, but it hurts me more cause i would have never hurted him like that, and he's hurt for a girl who he never even saw in real, u kno? so u really gotta be careful, cuz i thought the same that he wont fall for her too hard cuz he never saw her in real life, but they talked on the phone. and even tho she loves someone else i still wont say that its all over for him between that girl and him, cuz he's wants her... and u have no idea how much it hurts but i bear with it, i remain to him now as a friend.

think about it. ask him questions straight up and tell him how u feel, tell him to be practical. and ask him what'll happen in the future cuz he'll end up hurting somebody, and that's the worst thing that could happen.