I've always been heartbroken

yeah.. i know how ya feel

My boyfriend and I had major trouble this weekend. I got really hurt, and I felt the exactly same way. We talked about it. Sometimes, you just need to talk throughtly about things.

It is the way the mind works at times. Upon how you percieve your environment. Sometimes you've had the feeling of that aching pain inside you for so long that you begin to hold onto it. Therapy or meds are bull, that pain doesn't have to be "cured", most of the time you just need someone to hold, or hold you, a shoulder to cry on, a mouth to whisper and a pair of ears to hear your sobs, aches, and whispers.

Redstalker:

I bet you're letting the wrong people into your life. Try and only let the good ones in. Easier said than done, coming from a guy with a massive back catalogue of mistakes and broken relationships. Hey, oh.

i know exactly how you feel, ive been hurt my whole life but i think time is a great healer and some of my hurt is slowly healing

Well, I have been hurting sometimes, but not always.

I just cherish the good life I have, and the things I have, and try to ignore it.

Red stalker - it is good to care about others, but be careful about taking their heart ache and pain on yourself as your own. Hurt and pain come with life, but there is a lot more to it so look of the good things. Talk and write about your hurt and try to find the reasons for it. Once you do that you can help resolve the problems and help you feel better, illiminating some of the hurt.

I know this very well. When I broke up with my boyfriend. (We are together again now.) But I know it hurts. You have to do something about it. What ever hurts, fix it. Cause if you don't, the pain will only get worth.

Been there. Done that. I hope the pain goes away for you. Take heart you are not alone. :)

Redstalker

Your problem is your trying to ignore your hurt and the pain that you are feeling. You need to let it be, feel it, and embrace it for what it is, accept it and deal with it to enable yourself to be able to move on from it.

Its not natural though to obssess over this kind of feeling and if you find yourself doing that seek professional help to work through it.

*Hugs* my friend would comfort me whenever I felt that way.. I'm so thankful I met them. Whenever I need someone to talk to and I can't reach anyone, I talk to the people in my heart because they're always with me even if I can't see them.

He told me this one time when we were talking:

Me:"I don't have time to care about myself; I'm too busy worrying about other people."

Him:"Rain, you might not care about yourself, but I do."

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He always says the right things at the right time...

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Whenever I'm mad, yelling, or crying so much my heart hurts... it feels like my heart is giving up and is all cut and sore...

Welcome to the club. like others have said, it does nothing to ignore these problems. but taking on the problems of others as your own doesn't exactly help either. it just leaves your heart to be kicked around. you can only do so much. YOU CANNOT PLEASE EVERYBODY. and anyone who tries is sure to fail.

the truth is too many ppl feel like this, the only difference is how they deal with it, how wil u deal with it, thats wht u need to ask ur self. and it shud b a posative answer.

Try not to stick with that long lost love or the pain that hurt's most inside. Love is hard but only you will know what can heal your heart ache and pain hun .Love can bring you down to the deepest place you thought you would never go but that's only if you let it.