If you love someone.....?

If you love someone..you should be there for them no matter what...right? Even if someone has broken ur heart u should still love them..and be there for them..right? He wants me to be his friend and be there for him soo should I be?

No. Who ever said that?..

If the person doesn't want you around, or want nothing to do with you, you can forget about them. Even if you think you love them, you really don't. That's why love is a dangerous word. Saying it when you mean it. Love isn't suppose to hurt you.

It all depends on you.

My boyfriend did a lot of stuff to me. But, I love him more then anything. And I know he loves me back. It all depends on the two people. And how they feel.

i would tell him you want some space...some time to heal. and if you are ready in the future, after your love feelings have faded....then it is up to you if you want to be friends with him. right now, it probably isn't a good idea however. i've been in the same situation, and it sucks big time.

Well, I don't know if this is a little off topic, but there is a difference between forgiveness and putting up with crap that you shouldn't. You can forgive him, but that doesn't mean that you have to be friends with him if it hurts you too much. There comes a time when you have to think of yourself and ignore others, in order to be happy. That may sound very selfish, but I'm not saying be all "me me me me me". But some people are not worth your time (like this guy) so don't waste it on them.

Im in the exact same position....exept its with my sons dad...we have a 6 year past..and now have a child...and he has done SO much wrong.we are no longer together..we haven been for a while..hes with another girl but still wants me to do stuff for him and still be there for him and all..i love this boy to death i really do...but hes jus done so much wrong..i don even kno wat to do...i wish i could help u on this one...but im stuck in the same damn position...

i think you can be friend with him..but..don't be too close friend...dat's all..

i mean wat's harm by jus being friends?..

If a guy asks you to be his friend..after like breaking your heart, then he's a total loser..it happened to me once and like hes all like "we can still be friends, right?" n im like "F*** OFF, LOSER!" lol. dont think i took it real well..but still. :P

not such a good idea to still be friends..itll jus make things harder for u

you just no when you love someone they are all you can think all you can talk about you just want to be with them and no one eles feel like you are so important when you are with them and feel so sad when you are a part you no you love some one when you can look them in the eyes and feel so safe!!!!! when you will loses every-thing just so that you can be with them

always linda xoxoox

Love is about sacrifice but its not about losing yourself Amber.

If you love someone yes you should there for them for as long as they will let you...dont sacrifice your own heart or beliefs to do as much though - because anyone who loves you in return will not expect you to!

Again if they loved you half as much as you loved them they wouldnt break your heart...love hurts on occassions and relationships will never be perfect but it should be about more good times than bad.

No man is worth your tears and the one who is wont make you cry!

Amber this is crazy, cause I am going through the same ish! omg. I know exactly how it feels cause, like it's heart breaking when he talks about some other girl, while deep down ur like omg... and yet ur sticking with him cause he wants u to! I kno cause like I'v tried to get rid of him... with the least strenght I had, and he was like no I need u to be there for me... as a friend. And I thought to myself I love him so much I'll let myself get hurt but I wont leave him, because it's true love I have for him. And because Im still talking to him as a friend while I love him too deep down, he continues talking about this girl, and God it hurts so bad but Im bearing with it, still being there for him, its so hard but I dont know what to do either, and its tough, but this has only made me so much stronger and Im knowing that I deserve someone better. I'm learning something out of this.

But as for u Amber go with what you feel is right. If you insticts says stay with him cause u love him and cant be without him despite the pain, then think about it, and if u think it wont be too bad, then go ahead. If u wanna talk further u can e mail me.

he cant have his cake and eat it as they say!!
if he dnt want to be with you no more he has no right to say you shuld be there for him!!
its YOUR decision to say yes i want to be your friend still or no... simple as...

yes it is hard letting go of someone!!
but love is a dangerous word n you youll no if n wen and who it is right to say it...
um is a dangerous game most of the time!!
but this bloke to me is kinda wanting you still but not a gf... like i said he cant have his cake and est it!!!

but yeah totally go for what you want be casxue if u dont youll aways be thinking what if....
but you sometimes got too think... should ilistne to my heart or my head this time... listening to your head sometimes is better but it hurts.. when if u listen to your heart yeah it can turn out good but also u can really get hurt more.....

take care.. n tkae some time out and think bout what you really truely want no need to hurt yourself more for no reason!