How to get over someone you are in love with.

To me all love is is pain and suffering. Is love ever good? I'm so sick of being in love how do you get over someone you really really really really like when yo've liked them forever?

I really think that is a question that everyone wants to know the answer to. I lost my first love awhile back and it really hurt i was so misserable all the time and i was slowly starting to see other people to try and move on and all of a sudden my ex was back with me. so things happen for a reason you just have to wait and see what the reason was.
lisa

I can't really give you the answer but a lot of people can't get over a love. I know I could never get over my first love and he cheated on me twice, but I know what helps cover that love, another love, one that is stronger. It helped mine get covered. I cant say you will ever get over it but someday you will cover it. But you just have to wait for that. Sorry if no help.

Just an opinion here, but I have never gotten over this one particular girl I dated in high school..I am 36 and still think of her daily, I dont think you can ever get over that one particular person that helped create who you are today.

move on. Try a reversal love spell

just try to remember that at the end of the day life goes on and theres nothing you can do to change that. ill always love all my ex's cause each one of them meant so much to me buts its over and i am stronger each time my heart is broken but for every wrong guy theres always the right one left!!

I think..you can never get over someone you truly loved.. Neither time can erase it in your heart. Over the years you may forget him but you havent gotten over him yet...he still remains deep inside of you, hidden in the deepest part of you.. Well thats my opinion.. I really have a lot to say. But i gots to go =D

Nessa

just get back to doing usual things, just live your normal life and just LIVE... think of all the time you are wasting cryin or thinkin of the one who is NOT cryin or thinkin about you... sometimes you gotta move on... and well everyone will sooner or later experience a break up, you jsut gotta learn to cope with it

i dont really know i guess you should just try your best.

Trying to get over someone that you have loved is really hard. I would know i went out with a guy for a really long time and just two days ago he sent me a TEXT MESSAGE on my cell phone saying he needed to follow his heart and end what we have, and that same day my best friend told me that while he was going out with me he liked another girl. When i found out i cried myself to sleep that night and my ex didn't even care. But now i have realized that i'm only 15 and i have so many years ahead of me to date. So this is what i have to say to everyone who is going through what i went through. i know that it's hard to get over aperson that you have loved but you are still young and you have years ahead of you to find that perfect someone so don't rush it. And if that guy did something mean to you like cheat on you don't cry over him cause he's not worth it, he sould be crying over you because he lost a great person. And if you two are really meant to be than God will put you two together in the future. So always smile never frown cause you never know whos falling in love with your smile upside down. Thank you for taking the time to read this and if you have anymore questions you can e-mail me at spongebob5849@yahoo.com

Kendra, I think there is a lot of wisdom in your words. I would just add that at ages beyond 15, people still have many years of their lives ahead to find happiness with the right person.

im still trying to figure out how........................

Thank you Lydia O. Megha what are you still trying to figure out? Maybe i can help???

hey kendra thanx 4 wanting to help....thts sweet....but its okay really im getting out of it....

Me and this guy broke up 5 months ago and all its done to me is make me bitter. I'm going through the whole "I dont believe in love" thing and i dont trust people or get too close. but it sucks because He's really mean to me now and im one of those people who over think things till it makes me sick, and most of the time if he does something really tiny i think about it all day until i cry so hard i almost throw up. Good luck getting over this person you "love" though, maybe you'll be lucky enough to not have to deal with all this stuff

I think some part of me still loves every woman I've ever loved. Each one shaped me, shaped my life. (Especially the first woman I came to love.)

And even if we went our separate ways, the aspects that I loved about someone remained in them... so how could I cease loving, even when pain was associated with the separation?

Does that make sense?

simple, move across the country. I think I'm moving to Austin, TX

i wish i hadn't read all this, it's destroying my hope that i will get over my ex. i have to it's driving me mad. it's been a year an counting since we broke up, still think bout him

Well, I'm gonna agree with nikki, in that I never really get completely over any of my ex's. I love them all, and keep their memory in my heart. Wounds to the heart always leave a scar, but you know, for just one second, your heart beat faster recieving it. So, you wear these with pride.
Then you move on. Like everyone else has said, and Live.

I'll tell you plain and simple. You don't! You don't get over someone that you love. With a broken heart and a shattered soul you move on without forgeting. You will always carry that special person with you and you will never let go. The only that that will get you past it is knowing that you are all you need. You comfort yourself you hold yourself and you tell yourself that you are ok. And one day when you least expect it...someone will come into your life and you will instantly forget about all the pain that youve been through. True love conquers all. I've witnessed it. I've experienced it. Just when you hit rock bottom, "The One" will come and lift you up. All you can do for now is keep your head up...look for a brighter tomorrow and a brighter tomorrow will come. *wink*

~*~Christina~*~

Its a hard thing love is always hard but yes love can be very very good.. I still think sometimes of my first love but the man I am with now I am totally in love with and he's all I think about everyday

Well, I have a really creepy answer to ur topic:
TRY MAGIC
Here, go to this site for the spell :

www.spellsandmagic.com/getting_over.html

lol, I'm too scared to try!!! 8(

But to be honest, if u really want to know how, then type variations of the title of this post into google. Some of it is pretty good advice. In fact, some of what ppl said above me are already there. But if its really bad, see a Psychologist. Nothing wrong with that. 8)