He still likes me after all these months?

ok.. I dated this guy for a year, and he broke up with me. he said it was cause "I wasn't happy with him" yeah rite. He got another girlfriend.. very quickly I might add. Well we've been broken up for about a 4 months. And from what I've heard, him & his gf just broke up. And my friend who has summer school with him, was talking to this girl who said that he asked about me like how I was and stuff and she thinks he still has feelings for me. I still love him, but I have doubts about if he does still want to be with me. Like, if he does, would that make me like his rebound girl? And would it make me seem pathetic to go back with him after what he did to me? He left me at a very hard time in my life and he knew it. I just need some advice. Any at all would be appreciated.

I don't think you should get back with him. He left you the first time and got with someone else. As soon as they break up, he wants to know how you are. That doesn't sound right. It sounds as if he wants to go back to you because he has no one else at the time. There are other guys out there. You are going to have other guys that you love. This guy could hurt you again. Are you willing to risk it? I would move on. Guys come and go. It's all apart of life. In the future you will most likely be glad you didn't take him back. I'm sorry i couldn't help much. Good luck. I hope you make the right choice.

You probably shouldn't go back out with him. Like punk said he might just want to get back with you becuase he has no one else right now. Even if you still do love him, it doesn't mean that he won't break your heart again.

yeah.. that's what I've been thinking. I talked to one of his friends shortly after me & him broke up and his friend said that he told him that he broke up with me to "teach me a lesson" wtf? but his plans backfired when I didn't even want to talk to him. He's a jerk now.. he used to not be that way. And I know if we got back together things could never be the way that they used to.. too much has been said, and too many feelings hurt.

I was in this same situation about 4 weeks ago and we got back together and i loved evryminute of it howere he broke it of very quicklyand now hes back with his ex and im stil tring to get over him i would get back with him and enjoy every minute i had because i cherish evry one i had

I would cherish every minute of it too if we got back together. But I just keep reminding myself things will never be the same. That's impossible.

Hmm I gotta say, Im like in your position at the moment aye?

Look at it this way.

1) You could get back together, be ecstatically happy, but risk having your heart broken if he leaves you again. But then again he may not leave you.

2) You don't get back together and you're left with 'what if's' etc... but like you said before.. if it's not going to be the same.. then dont do it.

Whatever decision you make, just make sure you're happy and never regret something that made you smile.

Hope it helped!
Laterz,
Shirlz.