I NEED HELP!!!

  • Ashley Bendall
    18 years ago

    Ok, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and I think he's getting tired of me. We've only seen each other face to face about 13 times. I know he loves me and I know he doesn't want to break my heart, but I want him to be happy. So a few nights ago while my parents were gone I asked my twin sis Alisha if she'd let me take my moms car and go to my boyfriends house and she said she'd cover for me. So I went to his house which is about 40 miles away (I'm 15) and we talked and everything and I was hoping he'd realize how much I loved him and that he might enjoy talking to me more, but it didn't seem to help. So what do I do now? I'm all out of ideas.

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    Tell him exactly how you feel about him. You can't really leave it up to him to figure it out himself. I'm sure that he isn't a proffesional puzzle solver, so chances are he won't figure it out himself. Or he'll underestimate it.
    Then figure out what's more important to you. His happiness, or yours.
    If it's his happiness, ask him what he wants. And once you find out what he wants, try to give it to him. If things don't work out for you romantically, then maybe you should just try a platonic relationship.
    If it's your happiness... still ask him what he wants. Just becuase it sounds like to me what would really make you happy is to now he's happy.

    Hope I helped & good luck!

  • SECRET
    18 years ago

    if he's getting tired of you dan i think you should leave him.

    .well how abt you..r u getting tired or want to spend ur hole life wid him..?..

    was he glad,co'z you came to meet him?
    and he didnt' even enjoy your company?..dat means he's not dat sure abt his luv for you..and you r soo right he doesnt' want to break your heart,.i'm sure he knows how much you luv him...dat's y..he doesn't want to break you..

    i think he is also in a not-sure-wat-to-do..possition..

    but i think it's better to leave him..

    P.S: your life your choice..but if u really luv him and want to see him happy..
    (you said he's tired of you?!>
    so dan you should leave..