HELP!! i dont know wat to do

  • nikki
    18 years ago

    ok so i met this guy last year and we went out for a couple weeks but then i had to move so we had to break up. But last weekend i went back to see him and (he single) we hung out at the mall and i realized i still rly rly rly like him and he said he likes me to but i live 3 1/2 hours away from him but we talk everynight. But last night i got online and he just got off and ( we both have a myspace) i went to his myspace and there is this other girl thats #1 on his top 8 and he sent her comments that are like "i love you i hope we are always 2gether" and stuff like that. but she lives 4 1/2 hours away from him and he sent me an e-mail and was like "i love you so much and i had a blast w/ you on friday night" (the night we hung out at the mall) wat should i do? cuz i still rly like him but i dont want him to play me and i rly dont want to be just a friend w/ benfits. got ne advice??

    ~nikki xD

  • limp
    18 years ago

    Well he's obviously two timing. I wouldn't waste my time if I was you. I'm sure you can find someone else that treats you like that, and only you.x

  • blackrose1011
    18 years ago

    so if he's two timing, assuming that this isent his sister, there is this thing called keeping you enimies close, get to know her. Then you can always compair what he says to what you know. You'll always know if he is datingher. And remeber they are men, they have two brains and only enough blood to run one at a time.

  • nikki
    18 years ago

    ok.thnx for the advice u guys xD

  • RainbowSlider
    18 years ago

    Yeah you need to know where you really stand before you let it go any further.

  • nikki
    18 years ago

    thnx. i guess ill confront him...though i dont want to. :'( oh well ill talk to him. thnx u guys

    ~nikki xD

  • Kara !
    18 years ago

    Yeah, confronting him is a good idea.

    Remind yourself again and again that anyone who says they love two different perspective partners at one time is a liar, and not worth your time - besides, it'll be better for you to meet someone local.