Inernet Love

  • xxxxxxxxmary
    18 years ago

    Honestly.. I just met the love of my life.. I am going to be moving in with him in a matter of months.. but I met him online. I feel as thought meeting people online

    Is like better than meeting people in perosn.. online you get to know te person... you get to know who they really are.. and not just feel lust for them.. I love john with all my heart..
    but I want to know if people like you think online dating is.. Whats the word... acceptable.?

    I mean what ifyou find the love of your life.. Things happen for a reason right?

  • limp
    18 years ago

    What's the problem? Or was the thing at the end, really the main question? x

  • Han84
    18 years ago

    yeah everything happens for reasons...
    yeah internet dating is ok i met this bloke too of net n we kinda both fallen for each other..
    BUT he got job interview on 2mo n this wk he has really pulled away from me :o( i new this was gonna happen as saturday night as he left he said come here... gave me a huge hug n then kissed me where normally we wood just kiss n saturday naight as he walked out the dr we slowly let go of our hands...

    i really dnt want him to go.. im losing him n its not fair!!! :'o(
    umm but yeah if dating ppl on net just becarefull..
    but yes everythin happens for reasons what ever they are gonna be.. bad or good.....

    take care
    o n if u got any advice which is gonna help me to not hurt so much please give me it lol

  • SECRET
    18 years ago

    i'm not dat much of internet luv beliver...

    you say he's your dream guy..well how long distance r u 2?..same country?..
    tell us more ,..i want to no..

    it's ur choice to belive it or not!

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Ahh your the epitome of the modern day couple.

    Personally I prefer the old fashioned methods of meeting someone - face to face, introducing yourself and offering a drink, meal or phone number. But these days the internet is used for many things including dating and in some cases yes...finding true love. Love is always found in the weirdest places...good luck with everything.

    For all you young ladies be careful abotu giving out to much personal info online to strangers, including your heart. Its a big bad world out there and regardless of what someone is typing to you you really never do know who is on the other end...

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    I think that internet dating can be successful, as long as both individuals tell the truth to one another. I once had an internet relationship with someone, and found out that he had lied to me about a lot of things... The internet is so prone to fabrication, it's really hard to believe things, but if you are happy with him and you know it's real, then good luck and I hope everything works out for you!

    ~BJ~

  • Kara !
    18 years ago

    I'm not into the whole internet dating thing. I don't believe you can truely get to know everything about someone online. You can't see how they're react to certain situations, and really find out all their negative traits.

    I used to talk to people online last year. I met someone, and we'd talk often - but it was when he said he'd fallen in love with me I stopped talking to him - he didn't know anything about me. Not really. He didn't know how I am when I drink. He didn't know if I'll get up and dance at a party. He can't see my eyes light up when I'm happy, or know what my skin feels like - do you see what I mean?

    Love is such a fickle word, and is it right to really use it when you've never met someone? The internet can build up expectations, and let you down in real life.

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    Of course, if an internet relationship works for you, then that's great. One of my friends has met someone perfect for her, and they're off travelling together next month. But I'm personally not a believer in internet relationships. Too complicated.

  • Colby
    18 years ago

    I think it's cool to meet people online. I've met some chick online that were within driving distance, and it was all cool. As for internet relationships that are long distances apart (like state/country) I dont see those ones working out the best. Wierdest thing about internet dating is meeting them for the first time, because you both know that you know each other it's just so strange. Tommarow I'm going to meet someone I met on the internet through myspace, and it is much more nerve racking than hanging out with someone i've met before.

  • Chelsey
    18 years ago

    Holy crap I thought I found a love online too to someone named Jon...Ohhh I miss him so much..to be honest....If we lived in the same state...I'd really marry him....

    I don't think anything is wrong with it at all...I would just want to know him for a year maybe go to phone calls then moving in because nowadays any phycho can get you to fall in love with him then turn out to be a killer....best of luck to you both i hope things turn out how you want them to

  • Tainted Beauty
    18 years ago

    Yeah, i guess it's ok if that's the way you want your relationship. But I'd rather know my boyfriend in person, so that he can hold me and kiss me and stuff and i feel i know him better if i get to spend time with him.

    But that's just my opinion, if you want to date someone online, go right ahead:)

    --Steph

  • Melle
    18 years ago

    I met someone online 3 yrs. ago. I lived in Texas, he lived in Wisconsin. We talked for 3 months, fell in love and the rest is history. He rode a Greyhound to TX, we met at the bus station face to face and drove to New Mexico and moved in together. Yes, crazy, I know, but we're still together and we have a beautiful 9-month old son. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I hope it works out for you! Go for it!

  • Kia
    18 years ago

    well the only thing i have to say about online dating is..... I HAPPY I GAVE IT A TRY. i met my boyfriend well now fiance online he lived in ky and i am in va he moved to va. and here we are almost a year later planning our wedding.

  • Yazmin
    18 years ago

    If you truly love him it doesnt matter if you met him over the internet or at mc donalds, Its what you feel and if you feel that its right it most likely is. Love is found everywhere and is kept strong if you want it to be. Im in love with this wonderful guy whom i met last year in febuary at first we were only friends who talked a lot over chat rooms on a cell phone game, Yes a cell phn chat room =p. But then i stopped hearing from him for around 2-3 months and i thought that i would never hear from him. But then i get a msg saying text this # etc so i do and we spoke and i realized how much i missed him and we talked and on the phone was a big step but was worth it. I found out so much about him, like how he is a foster kid and etc. And we continued to talk and we asked me out i was in shock but look at me today. Im madly in love with him our 1 year aniversary is tomorrow. I can not imagine my life without Jay. So what im trying to say love is hard to find and things do happen for a reason i found him when i needed him the most and he is always there to talk to me and put a smile on my face.

    So good luck =]

    i have 5 months till he can come over here =/ (he is 17)

    Yazmin

  • The Rising Pheonix
    18 years ago

    Yeah... as long as you now who they are and arent... and if you know what he will and wont do when you meet....