advice needed please

Try going to a therapist or something... I dunno... I don't know the situation well enough to provide better advice...

~BJ~

Well it seems as if you know you have a problem...

which is really good, at least you're not in denial.

i've been where you have... not with the drugs/alcohol, but in the suicidal friend situation.

Tell me honey, do you believe in God?

I agree, it's good that you see that there's a problem.
If your friends committed suicide and you think you're going down the same path, don't hesitate to ask for help. If you have any friends, family or aquaintances that you trust, it would be good that you sat down and told them everything.
Most of the times, giving up drugs and other such things is too great a battle to fight alone.
I know because once I tried giving up sugar, and it was hell. So I imagine that weed and ex are much, much worse.

If you're a Christian, ask God for help. He is the strongest soldier you could ever have in any fight. More than that, if you truly ask him, he can lead you away from your pain.

The most that I can advice is to search out some friends.

//T.L.//

rely on God. trust him to get you through this. since you're a Christian, i assume that you read the Bible... in the Bible it says that God will never give us something that we can't handle. it may feel like we can't handle it, but God knows what we can and what we can't. and you can handle this! you can do this!
if you ever killed yourself, you would affect other people's lives in a way that they may want to kill themselves, too! and don't you see? then it would be just a big chain of suicides. don't let that happen!
talk to someone. whether it be a counselor, a therapist, a parent, a teacher, or a trusted friend or adult, you need to admit that you need help, and get it.
since you've asked for advice on how to not go down the path of suicide, that shows that you want to live! so do it. live. get help, put the past behind you, make new friends, and work your way to a better brighter future. i know you loved your friends, and you still can! but don't let the choices that they make affect yours.

i have been there myself after my mate committed suicide (1 year this sept), and i lost the other one tho not by death.drugs, well my opinion as an ex taker is they never help anything. alcohol, i nearly drunk myself into a coma, there is better methods.

although you may not see it now, everything does get better i am not just saying that, i no from experience. i would say, you need to join a club somewhere there is people who have had your experiences and where you can be urself, it WILL help.

its important that you find a real person to confide in, preferribly a counselor who can help u through your problems. i'm sorry about the loss of your friends but you have to think about them. they are looking down on you right now, would they be dissapointed? i'm sure they would be if they knew you were thinking the thoughts you are. suicide effects everyone around you. Everytime i felt suicidal i thought about my friends and family, the ones that are with me and the ones that have passed. just think before u do anything drastic. and where is your family through all this?

well i dont no y they comitted suicide but i was almost their 1ce but i realised, u only get 1 life will it with as much goodness and happiness as u can b4 u inevitbly go... cutting it short will seem like an answer but isnt thats y ppl find it hard. i must say i am very sori to hear about ur friends but ther r plenty of other best fiends u can have to discuss these problems with. ur never alone as longs as their is ppl on this earth... u just sometimes feel that u r.

If there is a God.
He can be quite cruel.

Im sorry and you have my deepest sympathies.
but youve got all these ppl posting to help.
and you cant cut life short.
because there may not be anything on the otherside.

But we love you adnw ere here.
you have family (guessing)
my family hate me so i really only have my friends.

~Emah
xxoo

You need to get a grip on life. You need to find something to occupy yourself, that is NOT illegal or that will NOT hurt you. I know it's hard to lose the people you care about, but hurting yourself is not going to make the pain go away and its certainly not going to bring them back, you need to move on, and meet new people that can be there for you and help you with your problems. Maybe if you count your blessings, and not the bad things in your life, and you'll realize how lucky you really are. Good Luck with this, i hope i helped.

--Steph

i know how you feel, someone i know committed suicide, and i went down hill also, i hung out w/ the crowd that did drugs/and drank. but now i remember that my cousin who was 17 was killed in a car crash, after she got into a fight w/ her parents, snuck out of the house, got drunk and high,and then was killed in a car crash, on her way home to say sorry to her parents. and my other cousin, did drugs and hung out w/ total low-life drunks. now he got out of it casue he got a g/f who loved the true him, not the high/drunk him. Maybe if you find a new crowd, they can help you w/ your probs and the same w/ you helping them. the things you are getting into now are for one illegal, and two, dangerous and can and will kill you. and if you know now you have a problem, you've mastered a step, now all you gotta do is put your best foot forward and let go of the things/people who are holding you back.

Much Luck, hope this helped w/ anything, and if you need anyone to talk to, i'm always here for someone who is in the same place as me, trying to find a way to get out.

~*~Crying Angel~*~