Sick & Tired

Is it just me, or are there any other people who are sick & tired of people telling you "he/she is a jerk", "you can do better"? I sure as heck am! That's the only thing my friends tell me if something happens between me and a guy. And I know they're trying to help and all but I mean come on. If you look at it from my point of view he's still a great guy. And in my opinion, if someone doesn't ask for advice about heart break, and you wanna be there for them... then just don't say anything unless they start talking & just sit with them.

Does anyone else feel this way, or is it just me?

Sick&Tired: It's not just you. as a matter of fact there are many many people who get those remarks/opinons and guess what, its just that opinions. People will always have em' and they are entitled to them, whether you like it or not. Peopple say that to me aboout my boyfriend all the time "you can do way better", "he's stupid and a waste of time". and to hear it and hear it it sometimes reveals itself as true. Although you musn't let that get to your head. Form your own opinons on your boyfriend and then see the things that you can help him chang if you even want him to change em. what people think doesnt matter. But you cant be completely immune to everything you hear, You have to filter some of it because some of it might be true..Its really sticky but only you can decifer between the right guy and the not right guy they are your feelings..I hope that helped.

[peace]*

Fresh***

I was just saying, and if I had a boyfriend then I would do all that. But I don't.

exactly