Am I just selfish?

I broke up bout'half a year ago with my boyfriend and I'm still not over it. I never want to be with him again, but i miss having talks and someone there for me to give me advice and just to talk to. Someone to make me laugh, especially that! I've met other guys, but none are what I'm looking for. I think I judge more now than ever on how the person looks on the outside instead of the outside. My boyfriend wasn't a stud, but i looked for what was on the inside and thought that was all tha mattered, but in this case how he treated me just wasn't at all what I deserved and i'm afraid now of giving anyone a chance because I'm afraid of getting hurt. Am i just being selfish?

I don't think so. You just need some more time. And maybe you should lower your standards just a little bit.