Love is jeopardising my grades and my future (What do i do?)

Hi,
I can't get over this girl i love and it is pulling down my grades. In tests, i think of her. I can't sleep and that affects my concentration in class. I don't want to let her go but i can't risk my future for an unprobable relationship. Plz give me some tips on how to work hard without her on my mind? Or advice on how i could cope with her and study?

ohh yikes well I had the same trouble too (stupid mee she didnt even care about me) when we broke up well I was a huge 'downer' and stuff and on my math test I could barely concentrate and well I got 20-30% less then what I usually get and on most of the communication questions I wrote 'blah blah blah' Im not even joking, I still ahve that test, and ya math is my only subject that I do good in so it kinda sucked for my average

ohh crap forgot to put what to do, lol, well Im right now in a relationship with the most sweetest girl in the whole world and I care about her more then my sis (well my sis doesnt care if I exist or no and would do anythin just to rat me out or get me in trouble) so well I promised Ill take care of her and well I wont do anythin to upset her so I KNOW she wants me to do good and that keeps me motivating cuz if my marks slide down or are low I wont only upset myself and my family but Ill also upset her

Thanks TC for your story. Its good to hear people getting out of this sort of mess. But for me, i doubt i'll ever meet anyone else like the one i love now, b4 i finish schoooling, to motivate me to do well.
Thanks anyway

hi can i just say my best friends bf is goign through the same thing. hes so smart and has the opertunity to go very far and dumped my mate the other day cause skool. he relised then how much he loved her and begged her to come back for a second chance. its hard to jugle things but with a little practice you can be surprsed. try your hardest and im sure things will be alright. nikki xXx

Hey, watta bummer, I kno wat u mean which is exactly why I chose to stay away ftromthe love factor for as long as possible. Maybe you could try and do something about your feelings and ask her out so u can put ur mind at rest...i dunno if it'll work but its worth a try.

xxoo,
alysse

well.. now Im in a very serious relationship, Im going into grade 12 and my gf is going to university, probably a good thing is we wont be seein each other at school so we wont be really jeopardising our studies when we are at school, but I dunno about all the stuff after school, and her missing me and me missing her... Ill just have to wait and see

but then again... we cant really help each other now I guess cuz well if we were in the same school she could just help me at lunch and I would do my best to help her, we can still try, lol she only lives like an hour walkin from me away :) or even more