you would think...

that i'm finally over him. I told myself over && over i'm done with all this hurting. especially all the crying at night. it's funny how everytime i say i'm over it, i feel good. then right at the moment i speak to him, my heart shatters into a million pieces... it doesnt make any sense. i mean i truly am moving on, but i just cant stand being his friend. everytime i talk to him, he's all about his other girlfriend. it hurts when he tells me he loves her so much. it breaks me. how should i handle this feeling? i should be happy for him, && honestly i am. i dont want to feel jealous anymore. i want to be able to talk to him && give him good advice without having to think about
my feelings. is that possible?

its natural for you to feel like tht hun!
um believe it or not your still going through all the emotions so at one point when u TRUELY are over him n u really are happy for him n u can be his friend n give him advice with out feeling jealous or thinking of yourself... then tht day will soon come n ull feel it.. i promise..
i know how u feel u tell ya self its ok im over him.. its so over sort of thing but then u see him or spk n its all crap again n u rememebr the gd things...

but u will be able to be like tht with him at some point it just takes a long timet o get over someone.. u time is a gd healer.. if u cant handle him at the mo telling u maybe tell him.. n he prob dnt realise its hurting u like it is.. i dunno!

take care n take everything in its stride yeah???

han

Of course it's possible. But unfortunately, that isn't gonna be possible for some time. There's a statistic out saying that it takes 1/3 of the total time you were together to fully get over a partner. Well that means like "no contact". Complete separation. Maybe just take a break from him for awhile. Go to the mall with some friends and check out cute guys, get yourself OUT there and notice other people. You'll be amazed. What's even more amazing is that there may be someone who was there all along, but you're just opening your eyes to him now. =)

Good luck Sweetie, E-mail me if needed.

joy*:.xx