how do you deal?

Well in my last one of these things I asked you all a question about being raped. Most of you told me that you would consider what happened to me rape. Easy to type but the words just won't come out of my mouth.. I can't explain why though.. It's so hard.. Well My new question is how do you deal with it. I know everyone is saying tell someone but that isn't even an option. I can't explain why on that one either.. It just isn't.. So how do I deal with this? I've tried writing about it but my poems don't turn out very good.. I even tried writing that guy a letter but I couldn't finish it.. So what do i do? What would you do?

I know you don't want to. I know you're probably afraid of the backlashes...whatever that backlash may be. But you HAVE to tell someone. That won't make it better, in fact, for a long while, things will probably only get worse, but by talking about it, other people will atleast know what you're going through. And eventually you won't have to go through it alone.

Hey, u shud really talk to someone ul b surprised at how much it will help and ul feel much better after uv told someone! after all a problem shared is a problem halved. if you overcome ur fear and just tell someone ul feel alot lot better and wont regret it at all. trust me i kno! It will take alot off ur shoulders and ul b able to deal alot better! neways am gonna shut up now! xXx

You know not telling neone is selfish. What about the next girl that he gets his hands on. That is why I told someone about my abuser. I never wanted neone to go through that. I might sound really mean right now. but what if their was a girl before you don't you wish she would have told someone so it didn't happen to you..

And good luck trying to deal with this when you know the guy who did thsi to you GOT AWAY WITH IT. You'll need counseling to get through it. You can't do it alone.

I know it is embarassing to tell someone. BUt you half to.

The thing is I know he didn't do it to anyone. I don't know if it's even considered rape honestly. But like i said before.. he has a girlfriend he had a girlfriend at the time.. ANd now they have a little girl and things are going good for them now. I'm really good friends with his girlfrined.. i just think we were both drunk. I just don't know about anything anymore. Maybe you're right but I don't know ..

I said what if their was a girl before you. I still think that is selfish. but it must not of efected you that much if you don't want him to pay for what he did.