Are you Gay??

  • Kevin J
    20 years ago

    I've noticed quite a few posts with sexual preferrences "kinda" posted :p. I was just wondering how many gay/les or bisexual pplz are on this site. I just thought it would be a cool topic, so here's the questions:

    1.What's your sexual preferrence?

    2.What's your thoughts on homosexuality, right/wrong/don't care?

    3.Have you ever experimented with or had an attraction to the same sex growing up or present day..even if it was just a quick second:)?

    4.Do you have any homosexual or bi-sexual friends?

    5.If you found out your friend was gay/les would you remain friends with that person? If yes, would you treat him/her differently?

    This is going to be fun to read...lol

  • Sean Allen
    20 years ago

    1. Straight

    2. Er, I don't really understand what "right" means, but they dont' bother me, so I can't tell if that is Don't care or right, but whatever, its not wrong.

    3. no

    4. yes

    5. yeh, and no, unless I usually try to set them up with hetero people or something, and so I'd have to change those plans or something

  • David
    20 years ago

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  • PnQ Mod Account
    20 years ago

    1. Straight, straight.... and STILL Straight!!
    2. personally, I feel it is wrong... but I try to refrain from passing judgement on people
    3. nope
    4. my cousin in gay (actor Richard Chamberlain)
    5. yes... I don't know

    ok, Kevin... lets have your answers.....

  • HOLLY ARMER
    20 years ago

    1. Straight
    2. Don't care...I tend to mind my own business.
    3. I think some girls are hot...but that doesn't mean I would mess around with them! I've kinda wondered from time to time what it would be like to have a threesome with a guy and a girl! But I doubt I would actually go through with it...
    4. I have lots of gay friends..
    5. I wouldn't act differently if I found out a friend was gay...I've had a friend come out to me and I treated them the same....

  • Ashley Washer
    20 years ago

    1. Lesbian
    2. I think it's right
    3. yes
    4. most of my friends are gay/lesbian
    5. It wouln't mater to me if my friend was gay/lesbian/bisexual/straight/or transexual cause their my friends and I will treat them all the same

  • ChildofGod87
    20 years ago

    1* Staight
    2* Really...I don't care, cuz they are human beings...so there's not don't from anyone else :p..{Well, that's what I think!!!}
    3* No...I haven't experienced, but some chicka's are cute & hott..;)hehehe...
    4* Yes, I do
    5* Yes..I'll remain to be they're friends, but sometimes I'll change my way on them for a lil while! {No offends} But no matter what I'll still be there for them!!!

    *^*I wanna know your answer "KEVIN J"..lol..*^*

  • Lexi Lou
    20 years ago

    im not gay

  • Gracie Jo
    20 years ago

    1. Straight

    2. Honestly, I think it's wrong

    3. No

    4. No. I don't try to "stay away" from them. I just don't know anyone like that.

    5. Yes I would stay their friend. And I don't think I'd treat them any differently... or maybe it just depends "who" that friend would be.

    ~Grace

  • Brian King
    20 years ago

    #1 straight with all the beautiful women what else could i be

    #2 meh it's what they want good for them

    #3 No

    #4 not that i know of

    #5 yes i would remain friends and the only way i would act diff. if it was a guy i would not point out hot chicks and if it was a les i would point out hot chicks

  • Danielle
    20 years ago

    1. straight
    2. I don't mind being around people that are bisexual or homosexual because they can usually tell if a person is straight or not. I'm not afraid of them or treat them any different because of it either. We ARE in a free country and even if we weren't it still wouldn't change my opinion
    3. No I've never ACTUALLY had an attraction to another girl before but I have thought about it.
    4. Yes, I have many bisexual and homosexual friends. That's partly why I don't mind it as much. I also have many straight friends as well.
    5. Yes I would remain friends with that person because they have the same personality but if they changed their personality to fit in then no I wouldn't.

  • Shædow Poet
    20 years ago

    1. straight

    2. Don't care

    3. Nope

    4. Yep

    5.I would still be friends with them, I don't like judging people, though my friends judge me because I am kind of 'punk', I think it is their choice in who they are.

  • juss an allycat
    20 years ago

    1)Im Straight
    2)Don't Care, Their sexuality has nothing to do with me anywayz
    3)No
    4)No
    5)Friendship is a strong relationship. Their sexual preferences dont bother me because it is their life and their desicion. I wouldn't tream them differently, I might be a bit cautios about what I say but they'll still be my friend

  • Kevin
    20 years ago

    1. Mostly straight...but if a boy is pretty...well..
    2. As long as they love, i'm coolio..
    3. Yep, don't know it til you've tried it, words to live by..
    4. Yep, loads...I LOVE GAYBOS!!
    5. Course i'd stay friends...it's great going girl spotting with my Lesbian friends...and the gay guys teach me to dance, brush my hair and buy nice clothes...

  • Kevin J
    20 years ago

    I totally forgot about this topic. Nice to see so many ppl answered:). I just hope everybody was honest. I posted this because some of these questions were brought up at this party I went to in the summer. It was really funny to hear a lot of my male friends straight out lie. I understood why, but it was still funny. It made me feel a little better, because I lied too;).

    My answers:

    1. Bi

    2. I don't think it's wrong at all. I agree with Laura's answer on this one.

    3. Yes, and let me add that alot of my male friends who I grew up with, and knew for a fact that they did experiment answered "Hell No!!". A few of them have said they hate gay ppl...now that's funny. They're all totally str8 now, or at least I think they are...kids, gf's, wives ect. They'd say the same thing about me, since none of family or friends know I'm bi.

    4. Only 2 that know in real life. I have a lot of online friends tho

    5. I'd obviously remain friends, and I think our relationship would definitely change. We'd have more to talk about and less to hide

    It's weird how the real me lives online, and the fake me lives my life:p

  • DMG
    20 years ago

    1. Straight

    2. I don't care

    3. No

    4. Yes

    5. I would remain friends and treat them the same.

  • Jacki
    20 years ago

    1. Straight
    2. don't care
    3. 6 times lol
    4. Yes
    5. yes

  • AGirlWorthFightingFor
    20 years ago

    1. Hetero

    2. As long as it is just a little harmless fun between two consenting adults, it's alright.

    3. 4th grade, did some experimenting with a lesbian.

    4. Plenty.

    5. I would still be their friend, but there'd be trust issues that would need to be mended.

  • in the realm of Chaos
    20 years ago

    i go both ways :P

  • crystal
    20 years ago

    i dunno exactly which i am. i don't think its wrong it hink its their choice and they shouldn't be judged by that choice b/cuz ppl are still ppl. i have had plenty of experiences with chicks, but they say ur not bi or les until you've eaten a girl out and thats one thing i haven't done.
    I have a gay friend i have a lesbian friend i have a lot of bi friends, and i have straight friends...i love all kinds of peeps! ;)
    of course i would still be their friend. i wouldn't treat them differently because my friends are mainly the ppl i've experimented with.

  • Luvmeluvr
    20 years ago

    1. Bi-curious... I am not sure if I can call myself a full fledged bisexual.

    2. I think it's fine. I think you should be able to do what you want.

    3. Yes. I have had a threesome where I was quite involved with the other girl. And I have kissed almost as many girls as I have guys.

    4. I have a few.

    5. I would not treat them any differently.

  • Angel Sanctuary ©
    20 years ago

    1.) I'm straight...

    2.) I think it's awesome...

    3.) Yup! got to trying things at least once. Plus drinking does that to a person.... lol ;-)

    4.) I acually don't have any gay friends. :(

    5.) Yeah i would remain friends with them. No reason not to..

    :-p this was fun lol

  • Jackie Bilson
    20 years ago

    1. Straight

    2. I think that people have the right to be who they are. And also have the right to do whatever they wanna do. Because it's none of my business anyway...oh btw, I'm catholic :) so, i guess should disapprove a bit more but I think it's up to God to judge not me.

    3. I think people are pretty....is that being gay? I mean, I think they're pretty but not like "woah, check her out..."...oh yeah, we played spin the bottle once. it was a no backsies so, i had to. it felt kind of weird for me actually. cuz, it was my best friend and it just didn't feel right even though i knew it was a game.

    4. I had a bi friend. But I don't know if he's bi anymore. He told me he "changed"...is that possible? He used to tell me how hot Keanu Reeves was...

    5. I think it'll be cool to have a gay guy friend, I've always wanted one cuz my mum has gay guys friends and they're really sweet. Les friend? I never really thought about it but, I guess I wouldn't really care. Like I said, completely there choice. And no I wouldn't treat them any different. It felt weird when my friend first told me cuz I've never known anyone my age that was bi but then, they were still the same person. You know what convinced me to not act weird? The way I saw his best friend (my bf at the time) act really grossed out when he told him. I thought that was mean. And so I yelled at him to stop being a jerk. I mean, it must be tough to come out to your friends right?

  • vanessarrr
    20 years ago

    1. straight

    2. none of the above. i care, yet i don't care. (?)

    3. nope

    4. yes

    5. of course! YES, differently but in a better way. having a gay guy friend sounds fun and it is fun. personally, i think bisexual people are unique for being true to themselves and brave by living in this judgemental world. who wouldn't want to be friends with those kinds of people? :)

  • Angel Sanctuary ©
    20 years ago

    lol... It's okay to say that the same sex is cute... Doesn't make you gay... lol... I've seen some HOT females.... Can't help but to notice...

  • FTS Miles
    20 years ago

    1. Female, i.e., heterosexual.
    2. Don't care. It's just a preference.
    3. No attraction to men ever, but I can pick out
    good looking men rather well according to my
    female heterosexual and gay friends.
    4. Always had many, though probably more gay
    and female bisexual friends than lesbian. I had
    the more deep friendships with my lesbian
    friends. (Not sure what that says about either
    of us.)
    5. Absolutely still remain friends! I feel it would
    be ridiculous to turn a friend away in any
    manner just because of a sexual preference.
    And if someone loves someone, they love
    them... it shouldn't matter what gender the
    two people who love are.

    [My state just unfortunately voted in a constitutional amendment to define marriage as between one man and one woman. An amendment which I frankly consider just as immoral and objectionable as the people who voted yes to the amendment consider same-gender marriage. So the subject is close to my heart at the moment.]

  • SHYSTY23KO
    20 years ago

    My sexual preference is guys! I'm not gay.
    I think it is totally cool if your gay and think it is bullshit if you think it isn't! Because that is telling them to not mess around with thier sexual preference, that would be like saying you can't be straight! Its something you can't help so why try?
    When i was little, there was a lot of lesbian action at my day care! I was about 7 and didn't know any different so shit happend :S
    I had 2 bi friends and they were so cool and a lot like everyone else. One was a boy and he was so easy to talk to! The girl, she offered to help me out with my first kiss, i thought about it! But my first was with a guy!
    If a staight friend told me they were gay, i would love them the same but be a little weirded out about what else they've been keeping from me and why they kept it from me.

  • Kara !
    20 years ago

    1) Heterosexual borderlining open-minded

    2) I don't think it's wrong, and I don't see why it should be percieved in such ways. The reproductive side of things is no issue, as an increase of heterosexual people these days prefer not to concieve children.

    3) A few girl on girl snogs - nothing memorable

    4) Yes

    5) I would remain friends, and nothing would change. I think the only people who change their opinions on a friend who changes their sexuality is someone who believes they'll end up being the friend in questions object of affection.