I just need to know what shes thinking!

Last night I went over to one of my good friends house, after I told her that I had stronger-than-friend feelings for her. We talked for a long time, pretty much about how nothing would ever work at this time in our life. Then we go outside and sit on the porch stairs to smoke before I leave and it just kinda happens...we started making out...right after we decided that we were not going to have a relationship beyond friends...Now today she wont talk to me. What is going on?

i think that she sorta regrets what happened last night because you both you said that it would never work and yet you ended up making out..so i think she feels guilty

blah i hate how things work out

But they havent worked out they are still a work in progress. Dont pressure her or the situation just let nature take its course and see where you end up ;o)

Okay well i'm thinking two things. One, like said in the above posts, she could feel guilty about what happened, and needs a little time to coop with it. Two, she could be trying to figure out what she wants. If she made out with you, she obviously has stronger feelings for you as well. Maybe she's trying to figure out whether she can handle just being friends. There is more then one reason she could be ignoring you. Just give it sometime. Who knows, maybe she might decide to be more then just friends.