i need bis,gays,lesbian help o.O

Don't label yourself. You're only 15. It's not like your parents are going to be too excited about you dating anybody (same sex or no) anyway.

In my opinoin, everyone's a little bi. Hopefully some of you're friends think like me, and will accept you and think nothing of you being slightly different from them because you're bi.

When I was about the same age as you, I was bi-curious, and wondered if I may be bi - three years later I've determined I'm deffinately straight.

Most girls tend to question this as they grow up, so don't worry about 'coming out' or anything like that. Give it a couple of years, and you should by then be sure who and what you are.

I agree. Do not dig too deep into this. It's like religion and or any faith or none faith. People within that faith or none faith will say 'well of course you are this or of course you are that'. Before you know it you become that even though at first you were unsure.

Go with your inner self and find yourself. Don't get involved in a recruitmant campaign lol.

Oh, by the wayI'm straight. Come on people knock me for my above comment.

don't label yourself, but when you go out and explore your curiosities, please make a video.

^^

You're sick. She asked for help.

religion or no, parents will have reservations about their kids being bi, gay, lez...because I think parents, even the best ones, have some fairytale of wanting their kids to go through life without the worries they do, and being bi, gay, or lez just adds to all the struggles of any normal life.

religion complicates it, and I think makes some people a little craaaaaaaaaaazy. like 'un-gay-ification' camps? craaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazy.

if you know any gay people at your school, you could start there, asking for advice on some of these questions. most kids I knew didn't start coming out until about senior year.

college is quite fun for the dating scene. avoid any uber-conservative schools though.

I think we all go through phases.

I used to think, just a little bit, that I liked women more than men.
But, come to think of it, women are prettier, right? They're "works of art" they're emotional, they know how to look good.

But, I've realized just recently that although I drool over how good models look, I prefer men, much more, when it comes to..well, you know, being close.

I whole-heartedly intend no offense, but i think that bisexuality is...perhaps a bit unnatural.

Whatever. I can only advice you to be ahundred percent sure, and not just act on what you think is "cool"

//T.L.//

u just need to realize that thats who you are and no one can change that i mean no lie i like kissing girls more then guys and i had to get over that i have... but the only thing is that i cant tell my parents cause my dad wont be too proud at me at all.. i mean really but i mean one day i'll bring a girl home and he'd have to live wit it... so it just gets a little getting used too

Can I point something else out. Everyone who has said they may be bisexual are somewhere between the ages of 14 - 16. It was about 15/16 where I thought I might be bi too. Do you see a pattern?

This is kind of what I meant. It's all down to puberty and your hormones. I know you're sure you are bi, but don't go telling everyone and causing a big fuss. Wait two years and then if you still feel the same, then tell people.

just tell them. if they are your friends they wont care. you might lose friends but by not keeping it a secret you may find out your friends feel the sam.

just tell them. if they are your friends they wont care. you might lose friends but by not keeping it a secret you may find out your friends feel the same.

ok am gay. my friends all love me. not cuz am gay cuz am funny and caring. just tell your friend or maybe your sister. my friends and my consions know am gay and they still love me. but dont tell your parents now like when your 20. aka i didnt my mom yet

heyy I'm going thro the same thing.... see wut I've found out is... well i went out with a girl... its lasted for 2 days... amde out with me dumped me... You no thats wen more than my like 7 closest friends found out and the whole school new... and i was pissed off cuz it only lasted two days... and kinda made me feel all uncomfortable nad weird... and kids kinda looked at me differently

But you no... honestly... i think that was lal in my head... my friend didn't change at all... they all hate the girl who dumped me jsut like they'd hate the guy... we talk about her as if it's just like anybody else you'd date... you no jsut give it time...

But anyway wut i learned from this is... definitly don't rush into this... like iwas reallyt ocnfused and i just went out with ehr and screwed things up a bit... if you just give it time... and really make sure your bi... it'll all be good...

Cuz you wouldn't wanna go out with a girl and then be like wait... I'm not Bi... or gay... or w.e.... and then everybody knows... and then it's some dumb mistake...

Thats wut I'm watching the girl i went out with go through... For me it's a thrill cuz she used me : ) don't no why she'd use a girl if she doesn't even like girls... geuss she's jsut that desperate...

sorry if I'm rambeling... But really good luk... it will work out... but don't think of coming out untill your 100 % sure you no?? cuz then it just like awkard... alrite ~peace~

say to your friends that you think you may be bi i did this with my best friend and i found out there were a few people in my yearwho felt the same my friend also thought she was bi but then she turned "scence" and is now straight ^o)
only do it if you are certain dont say anything if you think its just a phase
xxx

I fell like a lot of other ppl here it may be just a phase look deep and hard before u say anything and yes make sure u can trust the ppl u do tell for if u dont it will be a bad thing I know I have been there I am 37 and I am bi but I did not know till I was 31 and it was hard coming out for I was and still am married to a great man but I am only curious I have never really been with a womwn only kisse a couple and thats all but please search ur heart real close.

in all honesty, i wouldn't advise you to come out and just tell everyone - especially at 16. at that age, high school kids can be so cruel and even though i hated the fact that i had to keep it a secret from most people, i was able to continue living my life without the negetive attitude from people who i knew wouldn't accept me for who i was.

when i was about 17, i came out to a few of my closest friends and they completely accepted me. nothing changed at all and they still hungout with me everynight even when i was with my girlfriend.

i told my sister that i was bi when i had only a semester left of high school. i'll never forget how scared i was but she was really cool about it.

im not telling you to be ashamed or hide whatever you find out that you are - but im saying from personal experience, i wouldn't come out to the public until 1) you are older and 2) you are definitally sure

i wish you the best of luck with all of this =)

ok wel i am bi and i just told my closest friends and they understood but you may not want to tell all of your friends or family just yet because they may tell a lot of other people that you dont want to know and they can start rumors trust me i know but if they dont like it screw them they are not worth it i am and will stand by you on whatever you do i know what you are going through and nobody can make this decision but you....vampierprincess6@aol.com if you ever need to talk just im me ,uch love
kayla

well for me,,, 1st of all you are only 15 i guess! and well every girl has a little bisexual in her,,,it is only normal,,, but take the time 1st and think about it,,, before lebelling your self... :)

im in the exact situation, but i havnt talked to anyone about....

so yea i kinda need help too x x x

i was goin through the same thing a few weeks ago, and did you know in the bible that it says that a man should only be with a woman? and you know.. it goes both ways.. for women also. that made me change the way i felt about it all because i was so confused and i was trying to think of ways to tell my friends, but i am now praying about it and asking god to purify me and change my ways. maybe you should try that. i'm praying for you.

Dont' worry what others think

Be yourself and don't let anybody tell you otherwise. be strong for yourself and others, and find people who are finding who they are, it may help.

Well everyone is bi-curious even if they dont believe it, you never know really wat you are until you experiment

Wow. This one was dug up from the depths....

In fact, the original poster isn't even here anymore.....how odd.

My mom wasn't too happy when i told her i was bi. And she still isn't, but you can make ways around the situation. I did. My best friend is my girlfriend, and my mom h as no clue.

Ha when I told my father that I was gay. I thought he was going to kill me. Besides the fact he turned one of my brothers against me. And kicked me out of the house many times. There was other things but eh. It's over with. I left.

Its easy to say be yourself, but when you do come out you loose friends family and get quite alot of verbal abuse. It would be nice to think people would have become more accepting with time, they have but its going to take forever at this rate.

It might be a shick fir your parents.. well probrably for most parents.

But if your parents are understandble then it should be no worries :D

I think parent have no problem with other kids more about being gay then their own. I think they wouldnt be so over dramtic if it was ur friend that was gay but when it you it like u failed them to become what they wanted u to...

Oh yes. My father was not happy when I told him. You think he would have got the hint when I would wear makeup, tight girl clothes and paint my nails Oo But I guess not. I thought he was going to have a heart attack when I told him. So I left right afterwards and went to the park for hours. I had to sneak back into the house. I was slightly afraid he was going to kill me

I know. It sucks. But life is life. I'm better off now :D

Its yourself...

never be ashamed..

Dont be ashamed of yourself no matter what cause its not your parents that have to date the same sex or what not but you... so it shouldn't matter cause if you like someone who is the same sex and their your mr. or miss. right then go for it... its not for your parents to tell you who you can date cause its not them who is dating but you... so dont be ashamed at what everyone thinks but yourself... cause at the end the only person anyone truly has is themselves and no one else....

Liz