Advice on a girl

  • The Undoing
    18 years ago

    Okay, theres this girl, and Im only 15, but i know. i know i could spend a lifetime with her..im up all night thinking about her, and i just lvoe her so much. Now..we were just friends for a bit, and we started talking more, sharing stuff, mainly online chat, but we became superclose..and we always closed or ended convos with "i love you" but not the way evryone else dos it. we actually did. and we went through alot, and most of my poems (check them out) are inspired by her. Recently i told her how i felt....and she told me that it wouldnt work right now, she needed me as a friend..but slowly we grew further apart..i never gave up on her..i always talked to her and tried to become close, and we were in a way, just not the way it wwas before. Uhm..we have started to get close again, and we talk lots and stuff...and she knows im crazy about her. What do i do. I dont want us to grow apart again, but im up all night thinking about her..and writing lvoe poems and trying to find ways i can get her to feel the same way. i know love is supposed to just happen, and we cant make it happen. but i know that the more i show it, the better chance i have... what do i do :S :(
    VByers

  • Poetess Lana
    18 years ago

    wow... thats difficult. umm... if she likes you, shell come around. she probably doesnt realize how lucky she is that she has somebody who cares about her so much. if she doesnt come around, dont worry about it. there are plenty of other girls... ones who will like you the same way you like them. if nothing happens, i dont know what to tell you.

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    The best advice I could give is just don't push her. If you keep telling her how you feel all the time, then you two might grow apart. So don't push her into anything. Just wait for her to come around, and if she doesn't try to move on and find someone else. If she doesn't like you the way you want her to, it still might be good to have her as a friend. But pushing her could also ruin that.

  • xx5OUL
    18 years ago

    I agree with ^^. Don't push her and give her time.
    If you really love her, then you should be able to wait, right?
    And it's not like you're waiting for nothing, because she did say that it wouldn't work for the moment.
    Don't give up and keep strong.
    Just keep her close as your friends and you guys'll get going in no time =)

    Best wishes.

    SOUL --

  • Д ßøøŋđø¢ĸ §дΦŋ†
    18 years ago

    She's lying. she's just trying to be 'nice' by letting you down easy. Either she's seeing someone irl, or she's planning to, she's leading you on. She has no interest in dating you. She just likes chatting with you online. you're only 15, and she obviously isn't ready to settle. least of all with an online, long distance relationship. If you enjoy talking with her and want to maintain that relationship, go ahead. but don't expect it to go any further.

  • Lonley prince
    18 years ago

    in time she will realize her mistake,,

    let her come to u

  • SECRET
    18 years ago

    i think you should wait ..for what is she gonna tell you..

    because if a girl wants a friend that means now all she needs is a friend who is on her side..and 'll be with her...

    but if u dont' want to be her friend but want a relationship with her than it can cause problems to your friendship..

    so it's better if u wait for what she's gonna say....

    if she knows that you r really crazy for her..than i'm sure she also likes you ""but it's not the perfect time to hav relationship"" i bet she's thinking like this..

    but if she gives you an answer..i'm sure she wouldn't hurt your heart...

    for your both R friends!!..

    luck~* luck~*

  • The Undoing
    18 years ago

    Д ßøøŋđø¢ĸ §дΦŋ† : Lmfao..i know her IRL we are good friends fool..pleaseee have some idea of whats goin on before you answer.. ty

    other than that..thanks for the advice guys/gals..i think im going to let it just become us..we are gettin close again. and if we just stay close freinds thats enough for me!

    Thanks!