What do i do in this situation I really need advise

  • Kia
    18 years ago

    Ok heres the deal. my boyfriend has a really bad temper and its really getting to me. like tonight one of my friends prank called me and i was trying to get them to tell me who is was they blocked their number so i couldnt see who it was and he flipped out grabbed the phone and started cussing them out and all and things like that happen all the time where he just flys off the wall and gets mad and starts cusing and threatening ppls lives and all i dunno what to do its really starting to bother me

  • Kia
    18 years ago

    please people i really need need some advise

  • xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex
    18 years ago

    Sweetie, just talk to him about it...If he doesn't listen, perhaps you should end it. If he loves you enough, he should listen...And if he has an anger problem, think of what that could do in the future for you....He could start abusing you. Get out early. Becareful and contact me if you want more help.

    xDarkSuicidex

  • Kia
    18 years ago

    thats what scares me i talk to him about it and like hes like oh i would never hurt you and hes never raised a hand to me never threatened me but you never know about the future

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    "hes never raised a hand to me never threatened me but you never know about the future"

    If you are worried that he is going to harm you in any way, than you need to end things now. He needs to get his anger under control, and you shouldn't be sticking around long enough for it to get out of hand.

  • Kia
    18 years ago

    how can i help him get his anger under control isnt there a way to help him

  • She Is Now Gone Away
    18 years ago

    well many ppl are like that but maybe he needs anger management like my uncle cause he sounds like him and thats wat my uncle is doing now anger management

    Liz

  • SECRET
    18 years ago

    i'm glad he haven't harm you with his anger..

    well befor it's too late, you better do smth about that anger he has,..otherwise you never know what' harms are awaiting for you...

    Be careful..
    and i thik you should listen to
    LiZ..

    SECRET~*

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    This is what happened to a friend of mine. Her boyfriend had a huge anger problem, but never hit her or anything. But his anger problem ended up effecting their relationship in different ways.

    My advice would be if he's not willing to listen to what you have to say. Or if you tell him he needs anger management and he doesn't listen... then get out. If it really bothers you that much, and he isn't willing to change, then you don't have to put up with it.