to close for comfort

Kora,

This is so wrong, and I am really sorry that your Mom has chose to ignore the situation. Since she has then you need to take this into your own hands (as scary as it may be). My suggestion would be to go to a school official you feel close to, a Pastor, or straight to the County Prosecutor's Office. You could also report this to Children's Services in your County, but I also know you could go straight to the County Prosecutor's Office or the County Sherrif's Office (they should have a sexual assault team there).

Please keep us posted, but please take a step to get out of this abusive situation. You DO NOT deserve this, and you DO NOT have to put up with it. My prayers are with you honey...please be careful, and good luck!!

I agree with the above posts

Your mum is irresponsible. Your step dad is sick. Call the police.x

Kora,

How are you doing? I've been worried about you, so I wanted to send a quick post to check on ya.

Take Care!

He's sick, listen to Sunny, Sunny knows best.

Kora:

Here in the UK we have a 'Chidline' where people can phone in confidence with all sorts of problems. I'm sure you will have one in the states. If you don't you could still connect to the UK and I'm pretty sure the call will be free, and I'm absolutely sure the call will be in confidence.

You are never backed into a corner. Never say that. This is what abusers and bullies want you to feel - helpless. If this happens again, and I would buy a personal alarm just in case, you must must must tell someone.

Hi Kora,

Been thinking about you and just wanted to check to see how things are going. Please take care!

wow...you say that this pretty much started at about age 8?...You've been letting this go on for way too long!!!You have to take charge and do something about this NOW!!!What he's doing is obviously WRONG!!!...&& he knows it..he's just playing with your head. If you dont stop this now...this will scar you for the rest of your life!&& ur mom is being extremely selfish by not listening to you and thinking only about her love life. you MUST MUST MUST tell somebody who can do something about this. Take Care Hun=)

Kora, I'm so glad you are being able to get all this out, but please don't let your stepdad or your Mom win ~ be a fighter and come out a winner on this! Not that it is easy, but I just pray you will work through all of this and live YOUR life. Where will you be living? Please keep us posted on how you are doing, ok? You are in my thoughts.

well done Kora i'm real glad you stuck up for yourself a lot of ppl are to afraid to do what you have done i'm proud of you don't forget to keep in touch

welll done =]!
maby this time aprt for your mum from your stepdad will be when she realises thatshe could never put a child after a spose and will realise whats she done wrong =]
anyways well done again =]
good luckxxx

Kora,

What type of relationship do you have with your Dad? Also, does your Dad live in another town (just wondering if you'd be changing school)? Have you talked to your Dad - is he ok with you living with him? Please post and let us know, ok?

Good Luck Kora ~ I'm praying for you!

I say go with your dad...and tell him to...get out of that enviroment

Kora,

I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers ~ what a terrible situation at both homes. Although, I know I'd much rather be away from a guy that is sexually abusing me. I was wondering though - do you have an aunt and uncle that you feel comfortable enough with to talk to them about this and see if maybe they would allow you to live in their home? Then you and them could approach your parents. You are so young and deserve to have a safe and fun life. Please please please keep us posted and always remember: You have not caused any of this. Kora, you deserve safety and happiness in your life.

Take Care and Keep in Touch!

Hi Kora,

Checking in to see how things are going for you ~ I can't get you off my mind. What a hard decision for such a young girl to have to make. As soon as you get a chance to post, please let us know how you are doing, and also where you are living.

Kora,
Go to the police and report this. This is so darn wrong!! I'm not gonna say anything more about this! Go to te police!