I need help? Am I crazy?

Okay.... I am in real neeof help right now... and this is a serious question. I am really confused. I know how I feel and I don't know what my problem is. I've been madly head over heals in love with this guy for 2 years. And a lot has happened. He has gone out with so many people and 2 of my best friends and my worst enemy. For the longest time since a little before the hurricane until recently he has been the biggest prick ever to me and never even knew it. All because of this girl I hate, Monica. I mean she never gave him the time of day and went out with his best friend after leading him on for almost a year. Well, about a month ago, well.... June 11th the guy that I've had these fellings for revealed to me that he's always had strong feelings for me he just didn't know if I just liked him as a fling or what... Because he wants to settle down and the next girl he's with.... when the time comes wants to marry her. Well, he wound up asking me out and I am the happiest I've ever been but I am SOOOO scared. Is this normal. I mean.. I don't have any doubts in my mind about him.... yet I am scared and I don't even know why. Is this normal or is something wrong with me?

I think it's pretty normal to be scared when you get into a new relationship. New things can be really scary. Maybe you should confide in someone you trust about how you're feeling, and maybe your fear will go away.

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it's normal you should be scared assumeing he's your age and
"he wants to settle down and the next girl he's with.... when the time comes wants to marry her"

i'm scared for you

I think it's normal to be 'scared', although I don't think that's the proper word for it.

Maybe you're getting scared mixed up with nervousness, shock that after all this time your dream has come true, butterflies, etc.

But it also depends on if you've actually went out yet. If you're waiting to go on the date and you're scared about it, I COMPLETELY understand. Trust me, I've been there. Is he gonna like you after the first date, what will happen, etc., so on and so forth. My advice, as hard as it is, so just calm down, relax, and enjoy the time you have with him no matter what happens :-)

yeah its normall..
but its prob bit of being scared but also excitment n nervousness defo!!
as yeah what u have wnated for ages is happening so its bit of a day dream n u wanna pintch urself to wake ya self up! lol

yeah agree with comment above... have ya bn out yet coz it could be first date nervous... i get so nervous wen it comes to dates n i have actually pulled out a few times at last minuet coz igot so scared.. um with is he goona like me or say nah soz but not interested ur lovely girl and all but just wanna be mates! blah blah....
so i wood say take few deep breaths n i believe me as soon as ur with him on ya date or wot ever youll forget the nervous!! n u wont stop smiling hopefully... just really enjoy the time with him coz u never know wot could happen!!
im talking form experience then... so just take it day by day n let you both really get to know each other...

hope it all works out!
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Yeah I think it is normal to be scared... i'm in the same situation, only the guy hasn't said anything like that to me haha... he's still on the relationships... but yes, if he is the same age as you and he wants to settle down, i agree with brian... you should be scared! my ex used to talk about us getting married and used to ask me to marry him in 10 years (mind you we were 13 and 14) and he would always try and discuss the future... that was one reason we broke up... but it's normal to feel scared...

i think they're all right though, it's not really scared, it's more nervous... also, maybe you're trying to protect yourself from a heartbreak b/c you feel your dream has come true but you're like "no this isn't happening, i don't want this to end" and you're scared it may end at some point. so maybe that's all it is, and if that's it, my advice is to live in the moment and not be worried about the future quite as much anymore... be lucky that your dream has come true (i'm still waiting for mine to turn out that way haha) good luck with everything!!!

But we have been DATING on and off for a year. Like going on dates and things. There is a little bit of an age difference. But he told me that he loves me more than he thought it was humanly possible to love someone and that he thought he did... but in all reality he never knew what TRUE love was until I walked into his life. I mean. He said that he SEES me in his future and he can see me as the girl he marries... and I can see it too....

Well, maybe you're scared that this time, A) it will last or B) it won't.

Or maybe you're scared it'll be wierd.

Just my opinion, though.