I wont do anything now

i know it's hard to get over them, i've tried... the only thing that helped my situation was that i was the one who broke it off... but it wasn't a nasty way of breaking it off or anything, and we had been together for a year and 2 months... but a week later he got a gf and it broke my heart... i just wanted him to miss me for a few days! I think your best bet is to stop looking at the pictures and everything from your relationship... i kept all my stuff, but i have it packed away, and some day i'll get it all back out for a good cry... for the week after we broke up, i tried to always have a smile on my face and i was always laughing and having a good time... but i realized that i wasn't being true, and it was like i was watching myself smiling and laughing, but inside i knew i was torn apart... we're not even close to friends right now, not even civil with each other, but i learned after that one week that i just needed to cry and let it all out... so i did, i broke down... you can't keep it all bottled up inside...

but you've let it all out and it's time for you to start moving on... i know you don't wanna live without him, and it may be hard... but start getting out more now... ease your way into it, go out with just you and your best friend to do something really fun and enjoyable... maybe go to some clubs or dances or what not to meet some guys... talk to your friends to see if they know anyone... just get out there, now it's time for you to put that smile on your face... like i've always said, if it is really meant to be, you two will find each other again someday.

No man is worth your tears and the one who is certainly wont make you cry - let alone committ suicide. Your experiencing post-relationship depression as I like to call it. Being with him was like a drug, a natural high and now your detoxing on withdrawals and it hurts both physically and mentally. You need to socialise, stop cutting yourself of rfom those who really love and care for you and start realising you deserve someone else to come into your life and love you for you. He's not worth the pain your putting yourself through believe that!

Okay, i'm just going to be blunt with you. HE IS JUST A GUY! That is no reason to starve yourself. What is wrong with you? You need to move on. Guys come and go, that's life. You're going to end up in the hospital if you don't stop. Don't be so ignorant. No guy is the same. Your ex was one guy out of the millions out there. Two dates is barley anything. You will never know if there is another guy you might fall for unless you put yourself out there. He has obviously moved on, so you should too. I'm sorry for being straightforward, but you really need to stop acting as if it's the end of the world. There are other girls who have been hurt like you. There are other girls who have felt the same way you do, but a lot of them move on.

You need to get over him. Maybe throw out or hide all the picture you have of him, and try HARD to stop thinking about him. Get out with friends and meet someone new, mopping around the house all day, not eating and sleeping is not going to do anything for you, it's not going to help you gte over him and it's certainly not going to help you move on to someone else. Try ot enjoy live and act like you don't need him and eventually, you'll start believing it. I know it's hard, but you can do it.

--Steph