Jonesgirl
18 years ago
I met this guy almost a week ago and right when i saw him i knew i wanted him to mean something to me. I already knew who he was, but i never had that feeling for him or for anyone else like that before. His name is Dakota, and hes my best friends cousin. The crazy thing is that a few weeks before i met him i was having alot of guy trouble, then one day one of my friends boyfriends told me to stop chasing guys and if they liked me they would come to me. And that is exactly what Dakota did so i took it as a sign. I had also told myself that i would not go out with guys that are younger than me(dakota is) but i didnt care when he told me he was just 14...i still really likes him. He finally asked me out the next day....im tellin you I LOVE HIM SOOOO MUCH..and i want to tell him, but i dont want him to think that im crazy and ruin what i have....HELP |
Mousie
18 years ago
ok, Bailey, first of all, you're only 15! You can't love him that much... trust me, i'm 15 too... love at this age can mean a lot of things... love is something that is a word used often when you mean you deeply care for someone... give it time, maybe casually do an "i love ya" so it's not too serious... give it time, don't rush... i'm still trying to figure out if i love this one guy right now too, but you have to give it time.. just let it run its course... see what it amounts to... you never know, he may be your soulmate and your future husband, but he also may not... just, take it one day at a time i guess... hope that helped some or didn't make you too mad or anything. good luck! |
Heather
18 years ago
Tell him when you feel it's right, and when you are completly positive. I'm not saying that you dont love him becuase you're the only one who knows how you feel. But you could be mistaking it for something else, like a lot of people do. So when you're positive about your feelings, and the time feels right then tell him. And you'll know when it's the right time. |
ABrookeD
18 years ago
You are confusing love with infatuation, at least that's the way it sounds. If you barely kniw him, it's hard to believe you love him. You're 15, this relationship may only last a short time. Then after it's over, you will move on, and "think" you love another guy as well. Don't rush things. If you are with him for a year or two, that's when you can say you love him because you've gotten to know him, and really deeply care about him. |