Emotional Abuse

wat is it exaclty i think this may be happening to me

Well for starters you have to tell us what you've been doing otherwise we have no clue?x

i havent been doing anthing besides self harm, its my family who are consitantly telling me im not wanted try to turn me against life, they are always geving me crap n wen they think im not listening will talk about me in a bad way

Self harm is physical abuse, not emotional abuse. I don't really know what to say about your parent situation though, other than they're not good parents.x

I can't really explain WHAT emotional abuse is..

My mother physically and emotionaly abused me. But I think it was more things she would say. Like.. {this is really hard for me to explain} .. She would just twist everything and anything I said or did. Even when I did something right. It wasn't good enough for her.. So she would do what she could to make me feel bad about it. She even told me that she would have killed herself if it wasn't for her latest children she had with her "latest" fiance. So.. that was kinda emotional abuse aswell... cause she's basicaly saying to me.. I don't love you enough to live for you. Anyways. I'm talking crap.

Sorry if I couldn't explain it better...

Emotional abuse is practically like verbal abuse. Putting you down, lowing your-self esteem, making you self-concious...etc