silve*blade
18 years ago
Ok heres the deal, I've been dating this guy for a while now and a little bit ago we were talking and he told me he is Bi. I don't have a problem with it, its just my friends. He asked me to tell my friends. But we all kinda already knew. But i told then anyway. and now there saying "O my God thats so gross! how can you date him?!" and all this other stuff. And i don't like it that they do that cause he over heard them talking about it. and he got really sad and stuff. i just don't want him to think im saying bad stuff about him. and i told him that im not but i have no idea what to do about my friends. And my ex we're still really good friends and he's like im scared of gay people. and i don't know what to do. Please Help |
Poetess Lana
18 years ago
why do you need help with this? its obvious. you like this guy, he likes you. its your friends who have the issues. its not like theyre dating him. if they have a problem with that, ditch them... because chances are that theyre gonna start having a problem with you. |
*sparkles*
18 years ago
It doesn't matter what ur friends think. If you really care for him then they need to get over it. If they are ur real true friends they'll accept him. They don't have to like him, but they don't have to make him feel uncomfortable either. Don't worry about it. It's ur feelings that truly matter, not theirs. Like I said they don't have to like it, but if they're going to be rude and mean then apparently they aren't THAT great of friends. |
loves lost angel
18 years ago
your friends dont matter in this kinda stuff they dont have to like him as long as you do then its all good they dont have to be around you when he is you can make time for both....right?? well im sure you can and im sure your friends will get over it my x was bi and i didnt care my friends did but they got over it so its all good it will all work out fine and if they ask how you could date him again tell them its because you like him and they dont have to so they can back off well you dont have to but hey trying to help lol ttyl |