Your first time?

At what age did you loose your virginity? And was it a good or bad experience?

I was 18 1st time and wanst a great experience.Was more out of had too then actaiul choice.

Hey meh too

i was 15, and this is how i went....i skipped school with this guy he said you want to have sex, i said sure he laid a towel down and said youre gonna bleed and its gonna hurt.......so you tell me if it was good or bad......i think i would stayed in school that day. If only i could go back in time

I was 16 and it was to the same person i'm with now...I've only ever been with one person and so has he and we're happy. So it was a very good and planned experience for me.

Im in the same boat as Megan and Sean

first, I'd like to say that I am very proud of you virgins! Don't give it up until you are good and ready...and preferably (in my opinion) married!

I lost my virginity when I was almost 21 on the 2nd day of my honeymoon (I chickened out on the first night).... it hurt, for sure... but I would not say it was a BAD experience.

That suX Jacki..sorry:(

I lost mine at 14. The girl/woman was 22:p. It was baaaaaad...lol First out, I didn't really want to do it. That was like one of the very few times I gave in to peer preasure. It was at a house party, I was nervous wreck, ppl kept coming in and out the room...on purpose:p (thanx 2 my bestest friends) lol It's funny now, but i wasn't laughing then.

Anyway, I had gf's after that, but I didn't have sex again until I was 17

Yeh I'm just waiting with my girlfriend, we sorta just want to take it easy for now, there is a whole lifetime to have sex...

im with janine....not untill im married

To Kevin. Me and my first are still friends though. So I guess even though it was a bad first time. At least we're still friends 7 years later.

Still a virgin, and ever since I was a little girl I've had a strong conviction (for my life) to stay a virgin till I get married.

~Grace

That's kewl jacki ;)

Lots of props to all you virgins ;)

I think that's awesome!

i also have to say that is is good that those of you who are virgins arent to scared to admit it. i actually wish i was a virgin but im not...partially by choice and partially not. the first times it wasnt by choice, i was raped but there have been times when it was my choice. the first time was weird...and i regret it because the guys that i have been dating lately are all virgins and i dont feel like i have much to give them when we get married so i think that for those of you who are still virgins, wait until you get married...i really wish i had.
dawn

I lost mine on Valintines day with the girl who i thought/hoped wud b the "one", i was 15, i have regrets, i wasnt ready emotionally or ne of that. Take your time before you do stuff.....
Ben

I have a friend/co-worker that just lost his virginity last year at 28..no lie. And it's not like he's ugly at all..a little immature??, maybe:p

virgin!!

O.o Whoa James, i thought I was old, but you're a DINOSOUR!! Err, no offense
I lost my virginity 85 years ago when i was 14 and no it wasn't a bad experience.
Aken Sol

OMG Dawn, that is so sad.......i think thats like one of the worst things that can happen to a person. But don't worry, with the way guys i know keep going on the guy you marry won't be either. and if he he's he won't admit it. well i'm a virgin...... i'm not waiting till i'm married but i'm going to what for a special guy, not one of the hormone driven guys that have wanted to take it so far and make 99% of their decisions with the penises. (sorry if i sound a bit bitter, bad experiences.) xmollyxx

your eyes are open but you don't see

I was 12.....best day of my life!!!...lol

I was about 20! I wanted to wait til I was married but my hormones got the best of me! I had been dating the man (I'd later marry) for about 2 years before we finally had sex!! It was over all a great experience!!

STILL A VIRGIN!!! YAY!

Im almost 18 and just asked a girl out for the first time... ive always feel theres to much temptation, however with her, were both good christian kids, and i see so much potential.... Oh and were taking it really slow....SO yes im a proud virgine, and will be so untill after i say "i do"

Still virgin and proud of it

* Alexander *

i'm a virgin but i've only been in high school 3 days so sooner or later

Proud Virgin.

I am still a virgin but I almost lost my virginty when I was 16 because of this guy I was dating...But lucky I wasnt stupid and fall for his lies...therefore I am still a virgin and glad I am because I want to save it for the person that I may marry...It is the one thing I can give them that I havent gave anyone else!

I lost my virginity when i was 16... (not that long ago ... january! lol) I was not happy about it at all. there was this guy that has been totally in love with me since freshman year. (im now a senior) He would call me constantly and always want to hang out. (pretty close to stalking) I ignored his wanting to hang out for a long time and then finally gave in. I was babysitting and the parents were out of town for the weekend so i invited him over to watch movies with me and the kids. They fell asleep and he helped me put them to bed. He is a good person at times... Then i put in another movie for the two of us and he put his arm around me. I reminded him that i was 16 because i knew that threw him in a loop. (he was 20) So he took his arm off me. After a while he he gave in and put his arm around me again and wouldnt let me go no matter what i said. I wont go any further cause ill just start crying! but I'll just say it was one of the worst experiences of my life. Im very proud of anyone who can stay a virgin. I wish i would have had the strength. :(

i'm waiting till i'm married baby. and im proud of it!

Definitely a virgin. When I will lose it... most likely not until I am married. There are probably only one maybe two kids in my grade who are not virgins. I dated this boy who was about my age from a different city who was not a virgin. I was very shocked because where I live and the school I go to, we aren't really exposed to that. From what I hear in here, I should hold onto my virginity for dear life. :)

I am not a virgin, Hey sex is really kool its defnately a good thing.

My first time hurt a lot we were tipsy an i lost it in in my lovers bed, then spent the night in each others arms it was dead romantic.

Great Job to those who are still virgins! Especially the older ones. I'm very impressed.

I am a virgin myself. Have been for 16 years :). There has been a lot of times when I felt like I really wanted to lose it but I didn't and I'm glad. In my opinion you don't necessarily have to wait to lose your virginity til your married. But instead, to someone you truly love. Where your positive with no doubts.

If you get urges find something to ease it! Try masturbating..something...but don't have sex just for the hell of it!

-BJ

hey to spartacusdante, im in exactly the same situation as u! im 16 and im still a virgin too, but my boyfriend isnt either! only difference is he screwed his ex after only about a month i think as they were only an item for 2 months.
however i knew about this before we hooked up, and i know that isnt his intention with me.
i guess maybe u should talk to him, although u cant go back and change it, talking might help u accept it and by the sounds of it u dont feel comfortable around him anymore?? am i right?
theres really nothing u can do apart from accept it, put it in the past and move on...
much love n best wishes, tanya.

I was 16, it was painful, and my boyfriend dumped me a couple of week later. How wonderful.

He did take me down the pub for a pint afterwards. Always the romantic type.

3 days before my 13th birthday....way too early in life ...it was actually a good experience but with a horrible guy (he turned out to have a wife in mexico!)

I felt the same way when I lost my virginity.

I'm still a virgin, I'm not sure if I will wait till I'm married but I don't want to be in high school when I loose it. I'm -like others- proud of this.

I lost mine when i was 17, it was with my boyfriend of 10 months, it was both of our 1st times and we were a bit tipsy, so it didnt hurt as much as i thought, i am still with him now - 3 years later and i am so glad i choose him to loose my virginity to!

ok, i know i already said im waiting till im married, but now im not so sure.... i mean, why should you only be happy with one person in your entire life?? i don't know. does your first time hurt that bad? i don't know what to do.. any advice for wether i should wait or not?