stuck between to guys..plz help

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    18 years ago

    The story starts off when I met a guy and I started dating him and everything was going well until he started hurting me and lieing to me. And me and him always have the best time together when we can actucally see each other. Well then I started talking to an old friend and me and him exchanged rescent pics of each other and we started talking all night on the computer and everything. Well, he asked if I would mind if he came out to see me since he lives in CA and I live in WV. And I said its fine and everything. And now my boyfriend thinks that I'm cheating on him with this guy that wants to see me..but the truth is that I'm not..I dont do that stuff..its not me...what should I do?? Please help me out..any advice will do.

    ~DyingBlackRose~

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    I know it sounds cliché, but follow your heart. I don't know all the details, but if your bf is hurting and lying to you, then maybe you should just break up with him.. I just don't see the point in letting someone hurt you..

    Then, at least you wouldn't have to feel guilty.. And if you like this other guy from CA, maybe you can date him instead, if he makes you happy..

    I dunno.. I say maybe because I don't want you to think that I'm telling you what you should or shouldn't do.. I'm just suggesting...

    I've been in that type of situation before and what I did was stayed with my boyfriend and seen how it went... And I ended up getting more hurt than ever... =/ But that's just my experience... As I stated before, I don't know all the details, so I can't provide very accurate advice...

    ~BJ~

  • Jordan
    18 years ago

    Hell, I know lots of girls who would love to be stuck between two guys!

    Hahaha, I joke way too often at the most inappropriate times.

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    18 years ago

    hey thanks for helping out...its really helped me....maybe my b/f now just wants me for himself...but i dont..long distance relationships never work out for me and if me and the guy in CA ever meet it wont be for about a year and a half...I cant wait that long. Thanks for everybody's help.
    Much Appriecated
    Take Care
    ~DyingBlackRose~