how do u get over a verbally abusive relationsip

Tell someone.Get help...all the support you can get to stay away from this guy.It's not healthy.I don't mean to be negative,but chances are it WON'T get better.Stop fooling yourself.You'll only end up getting hurt more. The last thing you want is for things to escalate and someone(you) get physically hurt.So please,stay strong and move on.

I completely agree with the above statement.

I have experience with this kind of relationship & once you move on with your life & find someone truely amazing, you'll realize how happy you can really be.

you don't. nothing can erase what has happened.
all you can really do is try to deal with it, and hopefully it won't seem so bad anymore.

sweetie, (that probably creeped you out, sorry) you dont need a guy like that. im happy to hear that you got out of that relationship. but you need to stay out of it. nothing good comes out of abuse, verbal or physical, and you wanting him back, thats just you wanting somebody to lean on. you thought of him as your support system and now that thats gone, you dont know where to go except back. its not healthy. and if it gets worse, talk to someone.

-ARP