if you hated someone would you tell them to there face or set ru

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    I'd wanna tell them to their face. But that's one of those easier said then done things. I don't like hurting people at all... so I might not do it at first, but I would eventually.

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    If I didn't like someone I'd tell it to their face. What's the point in hiding it and being all nice about it? ..Though there is very -few- people that I hate, cause hate is a pretty strong word. But I still tell them to their face.. Cause I wouldn't want someone being all nice and friendly to me when they really didn't like me at all.. I'd hate that, I'd rather them tell me straight out, that they don't like me. =)

  • Purple
    18 years ago

    I wouldn't exactly hide it, but I'm nice to everyone, even the people everyone knows I don't like, so of coarse I'd be nice to them. If I have a problem with some thing some ones doing, I'd probably tell them, but if it's just that I don't like them for no reason, well I have nothing to say then.

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    Well, I don't hate anyone and never will (besides one person) but if I disliked someone, I'd tell them. I'm very blunt. If someone irritates me or if I don't like them, I'll flat out say "I really don't like you, leave me alone" or something like that. Yeah, I'm not exactly the nicest person in the world, but who is? :P

    ~BJ~

  • Jordan
    18 years ago

    I'd stab 'em.

    Gets rid of them quicker. Lol.

    I kid, I kid! I'm no murderer.

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Depends really I mean I certainly dont pretend to people I dont like but in certain circumstances like a working environment you have to. You dont have to be out of your way nice but civilised so its relatively harmonious for a team to work together is necessary. When it comes to personal and social life again I dont see the point in being a nasty person but if someone gives me reason enough to speak up I will not hesitate or back down but Ill avoid being down right nasty or spiteful...thats just weak.

  • nikki
    18 years ago

    i tell them to their face...if i dont like some1 i let them know i dont care if i hurt their feelings or not...i know im heartless xD

    ~nikki xD

  • Truest Lies
    18 years ago

    maybe I'd drop a hint.. like "you don't seem to like me very much" just so that they know I know.
    But if they don't like me.. oh well, what am I supposed to do, shout that fact in their faces? It isn't my fault I'm not likeable, if I try to be friendly, so I'll just try to make peace as best as I can.

    //T.L.//

  • Robie Lincer
    18 years ago

    If i dislike a friend,,,, i wouldnt tell her to her face, i would back off slowly, until i go out of the frenchship,,, and if she sees me in the car or somewhere and she says hi,,, i would pretend that i didnt see her...

  • Shai
    18 years ago

    Quote-"friends are great to have but sometimes it feels like they really hate you so they cover it with being really nice ... would you tell the truth even if it was your friends other friend or behind there back because either way they are gonna get upset"- Shay

    Well...Depends. If I feel that my friend is really my friend, I'd rather ask them myself and talk it over. Think about all the things you two have done together, and how you both reacted towards some bad situations(Ex. You hear a rumor about you, and Your friend stood up fro you/Didn't stand up for you). If your friend didn't act in what you consider a good friend, then go confront them.

    Going off to talk behind someone's back makes you as bad as them, Because you are avoiding the situation at hand and making yourself look immature. HOWEVER, Discussing it with them in a adult-like manner makesd you the better person in this bad situation.

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    I agree Shai

    Only issue I see here is "friends really hate you but cover it up by being nice to your face" doesn't a person actually have to like you and be nice to your face to be defined as a friend?

    Or is that just on my own lil planet??

  • Nancy
    18 years ago

    Angelina, why doen'st that surprise me....LOL

    Yes, I would tell them in their face. However, I don't hate anybody, I just dislike them!