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Hunn. How could you EVEN ask if that is the best choice?????

NO.. it is NOT the best choice. It is actually the WORST choice.

Ok. When Life throws you lemons..make beef stew. =D

Hunn. You can get through everything. Life may be complicated sometimes but you are going to make it through. I almost commited suicide one time, and then, right before i did it, i knew that it was the wrong choice. We all have so much to live for. Don't throw away your life.

>black&&blue

P.s-

You keep mispelling suicide.

=D

>black&&blue

Andy Milonakis. :] Gotta love him.
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I have attemted it but when it all started to happen I freaked out and realized how happy I was to live life.
It's a bad choice. Exspeically not knowing if you will go to Heaven or Hell, even if you are a beliver. That's what freaked me out. Don't do it. It's stupid and rather selfish. LIfe gets down in the dumps but their is also happy times. Were you are now was based on your decisions that got you their, now you suffer from the mistakes you made.

I agree with Black&&Blue. Suicide solves nothing

Oh jeez ive been reading your posts. You're 14. Go ask that question to your parents or your doctor.

I committed suicide once..

Really? Darien!! *punch in face*

Well I'm glad it didn't...go through if that's the word to use. Hope I didn't sound selfish in that line.

Lol, haha sorry Noni.
I was trying to break the tension :P

Uhh, Angelina Taylor, I'm not offensive or something, but maybe she really is doubting about it? Maybe she really is on the point of a depression where she thinks committing suicide is the best option? I think you should at least give a positive reaction instead of making her feel like she asked a dumb question. This forum about sadness and depression is made for ppl who have questions they can't ask to anyone else, and this way, you're putting her back. don't do that, please.

and to the original author : no, I also don't think that suicide is the answer. Maybe you should think about better things in life, than about the worse. you know what I mean? =) You'll make it through anyhow, after rain there's always sunshine hun ;).

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Ugh Tine. Guessing your new. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. You have to get used to it. People think different than you. And to tell you the truth I do think Angelina Taylor is right. Suicide IS dumb along with many other things.

Thank you.
Rachel

Wow- Your not new. I thought people who were around a while learned this stuff.
Sorry, I was incorrect.

suicide solves nothing. so it's never going to be the 'best' solution. if you have a problem in your life that is causing you to consider suicide as an option, you live to work on improving that. I'm not going to make any assumptions about why you're contemplating suicide. or why you've chosen to announce it to an online community. my question is simply to you and anyone going through this now or in the future, is what could've happened to this person to think they had no way out?

Well I wasn't the one comeing against you. I agreed with you. Just because I am 14 doesn't mean I am immautre or whatever you think. Some people grow up faster than others and some people never grow up. So does age really matter in this case?

suicide, everyone says you are stupid to think of it, but your not, just depressed and extremely low.
But its not the best option, and you can get through anything, no matter how hard, just give yourself time, dont give up and believe in yourself.
Its not easy, but it's better than suicide.
everyone'll say the same, my sweetie
xxxxxxx

It's not just getting through it, it's what can happen after you get through the bad things happening right now. There is always hope that your life will improve, that some one will care and start to help, that you'll become stronger and help yourself... I go through my life trying not to focus on how 'bad' now is, or how it's going to be 'bad' for at least the next couple of months, I focus on the fact that eventually, my life now won't be as big an influence on my life later. I'll have my own house, my own job, my own life separate from now, I'll be the one making decisions that effect my life, and I know I'll at least try to make the ones that will be best for me.

Get through it, and make some thing good of your life. If it seems hard, tough it out, you decide what’s going on in your life, how you react to things. Thinking about how horrible things are just makes it worse, thinking about how good it could be… That gives you hope, and hope can carry you through a lot.

(This last part is more directed at the arguers.)
And yeah, you can't controll what another person thinks says or does, so just work on making it how you want it with what you can do. I am 14, almost 15, and I admit that I don't know everything, that there's no way I could, and I'm fully willing to be corrected, and take in consideratoin what the correctoin is and if I want to acept(sp) the correctoin. I'm just another whiney teen who ocasoinally makes their life sound worse then it is. ;)

all i can say is don't do it there are so many people that love you and don't want any thing to happen to you

linda

dont do it please you would hurt so many people though you think you wouldnt belive me you would your family would be devestated and friends would no longer have you to solve thier problems to have sleepovers to cry on your shoulder and all the little lovely things in life you have not realised you would miss please re-consider=]
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Did I mentoin that I believe I've already failed to convince some one not to commit suicide when I was about eight? Random person I could remember on my IM list IMed me sounding really suicidal, and I think what I said backfired on me. I to went on the 'but some one /must/ care about you' line, and they were convinced everyone either didn't care about them, or hated them... I just reminded them of that.

So, orginal poster... Could you at least post some thing in reply to all this so I at least know you're still there? I'd hate to loose another life to faulty help.

To the people who think suicide is the dumb thing to do, yes it maybe that, but you don't say that to someone who is thinking about it. It drops there self worth and makes them feel like doing it more than before. I know this because it happened to me. Yes this is a free world but really, don't be so selfish. Consider other peoples feelings.

To the orginal poster, please don't do it, not because they say it's dumb but because people do care. You have so much to live for. I do know what you're going through. Deppression clouds your vision and you cannot see the rainbow that is to come at the end of th storm.

I was suicidal, so I know what I'm talking about, still am deppressed. It's the hardest thing I've ever faced but I promise you that it will get better. Tell someone close to you, get it all help, a burden is much lighter when more people carry it. I'm also here if you need someone to talk to.

Please reconsider

there is no rock bottom...no, there's much lower...but when you're going through hell, just keep going.

i have tryed suicide..each time someone walked in on me and i got in even more truble so i would get more sad and on and on..so i just gave up..i just cut now..i dont reccomend it that much but its better then suicide..if that even helps.

Suicide is a PERMANENT solution to a TEMPORARY problem - I stand by that quote its so basic yet so true. Suicide is the ultimate gutless n selfish sin people can commit.

sure it is. pull the trigger. blow all your problems away.

there's no such thing as a 'temporary' problem. most 'temporary' problems are merely the tip of an iceberg of neurosis.

Suicide is the worst option. A few years ago, i was suicidal. It's not worth it. There is so much in life to live for. Sure it gets tough, espcially as a teen, but that's no reason to commit suicide. Take time to look at little things in life that are worth living for. Watch things like the sunset, or look at the moon and stars, watch the clouds drift by, watch the rain fall. Go hiking in a park, and look at all the beautiful plants and animals. Though it sounds stupid, these little things are part of what makes life wonderful.

Psychological problems...not personal. no they're not the same thing.

Hey.
Have you ever even realized that MOST PEOPLE who actually commit suicide, they never told a soul? They never let anyone in on their intentions? They just do it, which is stupid, yeah.

So if you're thinking about it, asking for an opinion on whether its right on wrong...

You're more stupid than I thought.

DUUUUUH ITS WRONG, YOU AIRHEAD!
GEESE. dajf;aklfajf;afkja;dlkfj Drives me absolutely insane with questions like that..."should I kill myself?"

God! NO YOU SHOULD NOT KILL YOURSELF! EVER! Take a good look at this life you're living now, and i mean take a GOOD look. Look past the temporary, look into the long run. Realize your ambitions, take a long hard look at your family.

Because when you commit suicide-that's it. They're gone. It's all over and you just blew your one and only chance on this earth. And why? Because you didn't have the guts to fight through a tough time? It WILL pass.

Ugh. Sorry if i've offended you. Its late here and I really should not have opened this thread.

And just sos you all know.

I agree with Angelina 100%.

I have Bipolar Disorder and sometimes I get into a situation that there is no way out anymore. It is very hard for a depressed person to realize that there is so much more out there to believe in. I tried to commit suicide in April because of a situation that happend and because I was manic. Even though I love my daughter so much, I didn't see it this way anymore. Therefor I had nothing left to live for. I did try but Thank God I'm still here. Looking back my daughter would have lost her mom. Suicide is bad but he hurt afterwards if it didn't work is even harder!! Suicide is still a sin too!

Kim, this is not the way to treat anyone with this kinds of questions. We often need to hear from strangers that life will be okay!! No need to get rude to her!

Angelina, just like I told Kim. No need to get rude with a person who is asking a question like that. She needs reassurance, so be helpful instead of being so damn cruel!! What the hell is wrong with you people!!

You know, with answers like that, you really get a person low to the ground. Do you peeps ever think before you open your big mouths??? Yes, you can voice your opinion, but man, do it in a civilized way will ya!! And the damn name calling like airhead and such...It is thanks to people like you that others kill themselves!! Ever thought about that??

suicide is the wrong way to end your life. i've learned that. i have tried to commit suicide many times...and it solves nothing. just think of what your family and friends would have to go threw. my dad even told me if i was to kill myself, i should just put his gun to his head right then and there cause he wouldnt know what to do.

LIFE IS A GIFT!!!! and i have learned that and you should to. there will be terrible things that will happen to you but nothing so terrible to kill yourself over. if everyone killed themselves over something that made them wanna give up, there would be no one left in this world!

and like ^^^ there are people all around the world being starved to death, dying from cancer and other deadly diseses, and also people dying for our country in war! and just cause you break up w/ someone, or your parents get divorced, or someone you loved dies,(examples) doesnt mean you should kill yourself to release the pain. a lot of things happen to a lot of people some worse then others, and those people keep going on to success in life. and now that i know all of this from what i've gone threw, i've learned that killing yourself is a weakness, your not strong, and not proving a point. its plain stupidity!!!

and also, i've tried committing suicide a few times. but when i was rushed to the hospital and watching my family and friends crying, i realized what i wouldn't be doing to myself, but to the people i love. i couldn't stand never seeing my 2 1/2 year old cousin, who's more like a daughter to me, (since i've taught her pretty much everything she knows) learn to ride a bike, or see her on her first day of kindergarden. or see my 17 year old brother with Downs Syndrome, graduate from middle school and highschool. im not trying to pull myself into this but its true...look at the younger children in your family, or your parents, your friends, those people beileve in you, and some of them, you never know look up to you. what would they do if you were gone. think about that.

and next time please don't post things like this. suicide is the weakest and far most dumbest thing to do and/or think and talk about. i've lost one of my friends to suicide. and she died, for a very sad reason...her b/f broke up w/ her. stupidity.

~*~Crying Angel~*~

yes for sure...like i said before...if everyone killed themselves about something that made them wanna give up, NO ONE WOULD BE ALIVE IN THIS WORLD.

i think this thread was a waste...sorry but "should i kill myself?" is a RIDICULOUS question. im not trying to be mean or rude but its the truth. SUICIDE IS THE DUMBEST THING IN THE WHOLE WORLD! ending your life is stupid! and i just HATE questions about suicide! if i let all the problems i've been threw eat me up so much...i would have been dead, many, many times! i've lost my best friend in the whole world on the 15th of July this year! and i dont know what i'll do w/out him. but i know he wouldn't want me to kill myself so i can be w/ him. he'd want me to live life to the fullest and when its my time to die, accidently or of old age or however i shall die, then i can/ and will die!i've lost my ex-bf because he died too of a brain disese, my grandparents, cousin,and many other ppl i love. and i've had many worse things happen to me too. and just cause of all of that, im still here. everyone has problems. WORSE THEN OTHERS. but not WORSE then living a life that was pretty much given to you. ITS A GIFT, I CANT SAY THAT ENOUGH! AND "SHOULD I KILL MYSELF?" IS THE DUMBEST AND MOST ANNOYING QUESTION I HAVE EVER HEARD!!! IT MAKES ME SO SICK AND TICKED OFF! NOTHING IS WORTH DYING FOR, NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!

and nancy, not to be rude, but Angelina im guessing wasn't trying to be mean or rude, she's probably annoyed w/ that question too. and for me, when you loose someone to suicide it gets kinda sicking when there's people out here, asking if suicide is a good choice to end a depressed life. the truth, and the opinon, shouldnt be sugarcoated, and i've talked to many ppl like this before that have asked me that same stupid ?, and when they thought it out the understood how STUPID it was to even think about it, + even asking about it they apologized and never brought it up agian cause then they know who they would NEVER see agian, and what they'd NEVER be able to do. sorry but not to be rude, its the truth.

It is one thing to say your opinion, it is another to be civilized. And freedom of speech??? Me as a Dutch person living in America haven't seen much about freedom of speech, so don't even bring me that. That is something you like to bring up because somebody points out to you that you can say something in a civilized way!! Period!!

My daughter has thought about suicide and she is only 12. She is not doing this because she wants to but because she has Bipolar Disorder just like me. So, maybe a attention seeker too??? Mabye the person who asked the question has an illness, what the hell do you know???

Yes, people are being killed against their will. The Americans get killed against their will because of your awesome president who sends them to war. So, yes, I do know what cruelty is!!

Not to mention that people commit suicide because of cruelty!! Ever tought about that?? Kids how get raped by their parents?? People who get abused and raped?? You think they want to go on and live?? They never asked to be killed or hurt!!

No, you have no clue what anyone goes through!! If you have no consideration about another person that is depressed and considers suicide, you have no clue!!

People like you make me mad!! People who have no damn heart like you make me mad!! You think you are so perfect with those perfect words of yours!! I think you need a wakeup call!!

End of Story to me!!

You are 17, you have been nowhere yet!! Instead of trying to be so perfect why don't you just be a little more considered. And as far as my daughter, she got help long time ago!! Seems you still need help with having respect for your elders right!! But no, you are the perfect little girl who thinks of walking all over others!! I refuse to let a 17 year old walk over me. My own daughter has more respect then you do!! You might wanna work on that, perfect little angel!!
Suicide is not the solution and I have never said that! I also posted that it hurts after you finally figured out what you did. 80% of the population is depressed and 40% are children. Not sure if this is a fact but I can care less. Children today are depressed because of others lack of caring! Peer pressure is one cause of suicide!! I never said anywhere in these post that it is okay to commit suicide. However by being so inconsidered, you give the person the idea you obsolutely don't care about that person. I've been a loner for years and I know what it is to be lonely and people being inconsiderate!

BTW, and I'm not like you??? Sticking your foot in your mouth??? For your information, I'm still alive and well so somewhere along the line we are in thesame boat believe it or not!!

If we weren't all so cruel to each other, less people would commit suicide overall!!

But you know what, it does not matter!! I have my opinion on this and you have yours!! Fortunately I'm not perfect and know what my mistakes are!!

Crying Angel, I know that Angelina probably didn't say this to be mean. It is the way she said the things she said. Believe it or not, I do understand her point of view. However Angelina is so pissed now because someone is not agreeing with her that she doens't even see this!!

I lost my best friend years ago because of suicide. His girlfriend had broken of the relationship and he decided to end his life. I was heartbroken but somewhere the line I understood what he went through!! I still miss my friend today!! Was it stupid, sure it was!! But people need to understand the world depressed people live in. We as adults need to be considered of the teens who struggle with depression, even if we heard the questions thousands times before. That is what Angelina doesn't get. She just tries to be the perfect person with her perfect words!!

Nancy,
i think the origional poster is an attention seeker. if she wasn't she would have more to say.
and also, none of us are trying to be perfect lil angels that know everything and no one said that they are...belive me i dont know everything, im only 14. BUT I DO know that being abused and raped is a terrible feeling because i HAVE been there, and i didn't ask for that either... so dont get me started on that! and from on top of all of that, my parents are divorced, and @ 3years old i lived in a very bad neighborhood that had drugs used/sold everywhere you turned and i've losted many people i loved from various reasons. theres been many times i thought that living was just a waste. many people have. i know i have my problems, and i am getting help. and like Angelina said, i also DONT sugarcoat the truth. my opinion is MY opinion, and if anyone has a problem w/ what i think thats not my problem. the origional poster asked for our opinons and we told her. and for the whole, "because of people like us, people are committing suicide", yeah part of that is true, some people are crule, but when someone asks for a person opinion, they shouldn't dwell over what they say. they asked.
and its not just cause of people like "us", there are many different reasons also. so before people started judging on what people say, remember, these ARE OPINIONS, we ARE allowed to say what we think! and i've learned from my mistakes, and if i didn't id be in denile...im honest...sorry if thats a problem...but i dont care, i have my opinions, you have yours, and if you are so sick of what we are saying, ignore it. im not trying to walk all over you since that's what you think we're doing, im stating my opinion just like everyone else who's answered the person who started this thread.

Angelina,
I never said you had to change. It was my view on how you wrote your reply. And no, I'm not sugarcoating this whole thing, but I guess I just see a little bit different than you.
I do however apologize for judging you. I'll let it be because we all have our own opinions on this!

Crying Angel,
Whatever I wrote had nothing to do with you. This was directed towards Angelina. And by that I mean about letting her walk over me! Just like was said, we have said what we needed to say, let it rest!