I miss the past

I've been given advice to stay friends with this girl 'best friends'
But it seems the more I try to be with her, the further we're driven apart.
I need some kind of advice.
I hope to stay with her but maybe it's not meant to be?
I miss how we used to be so close. So together.
But I feel as if I'm being the only one trying.

Because she won't tlak to me unless I talk to her.
And small things like that, but become bigger cause it hurts.

Please Help me.
I'm so lost and alone.
*+Blade+*

I've had the same thing happen to me. It hurts to let go, but it's so much harder forcing yourself to stay close. I say let go.

I personally think that you need to wait for whatever or whoever to come to you. If you have done all that you can for this girl, then you need to wait until she comes to you. If she doesn't then whatever you are trying to do won't work out properly.

I don't think there's really a point in forcing some thing. In my mind it'd make more sense to let and stop trying to force the friendship together, and just let it go and see what happens. Maybe you trying to make the friendship work is having the opposite effect.

I've fallen away from my old bestfriend, we don't hate each other, we just don't talk. It's much more confortable since I've stopped trying to be her friend, and started to just live my own life.

i think there mightbe something shes not telling you that she think you've done but she sees it from another point of veiw this happend with me and in the end i realised that it wasent worththe effort and when i stopped sucking up to her i came out of that shell and saw what a horrible person she was and what mean things she did to other people im sure your friend is not liek this biut its whathappend to me =]
try writing her a note ? and try and pretend that nothing has ever been wrong be tween you two im sure it'll work out fine =D
xxx

as hard as it is the best thing to do is just let go and move on with ur life yes that is hard I just want through it with a friend of over 20 yrs she got a new lover and now she is not to talk to me and that hurts but it is her choice to let our friendship go so I have to move on but I will never forget her or the friendship we had and when if ever she comes around she know I will always be here for her as u will for ur friend so just step back and let her learn a hard leasonok hope this makes sence.

ok all you gotta do is ask her what she wants...if she wants to get together than stay friends..if not...move on isn't too much you can do after that...pretty simple..been there..it didn't work for me..maybe it will work for you...goodluck

it is...my best friend was did that too and i had to learn to let go and it was the hardest thing to do