Please help me, Its a weird story, but I need help!!!

Okay, I year ago exactly I fell in love with the boy of my dreams. I saw him, and it was literly love at first sight. We exchanged numbers and everything and talked and then about a week after that, he was put into foster care. And I wasnt aloud to see him anymore. But there was no way I could be with anyone else, and so I waited for him, for 5 months. and then one day he called me and we started going out right then and there. Well we went out for 9 months. when DCFS desided that he couldnt talk to anyone that lived down hear because of threats his family was making to the foster parents. So now, I dont get to talk to him, and its been three months sence ive talked to him. He is the love of my life, and I dont wanna be with anyone else, but my friends keep saying that I cant wait for him and to try other people, so I do..and those other guys ive been with sense then, just dont feel right....they all treat me like a princess, but they dont feel the same! Should I hold on to the guy that I truly love, or be with someone who just doenst feel right!!?!!

If I were you, I would wait for true love. As you stated, it feels wrong... Otherwise, if you do happen to find someone who feels right, then go for it...

But I would wait... He loves you, right? If he does, then it will definitely be worth it.

This is what I would do, at least...

~BJ~

I think it's great that you found him, but what if you don't get to see him again? If you know that you will be able to be together again, i definitely say wait because of your feelings for him. If you're not sure whether you will be able to be together again, i say keep dating. You may find another guy you really like. Love is an incredible thing. If i felt that strongly for a guy, i would wait, unless i knew i would never see him again. He feels the same way about you, right? Well i hope i helped, and i hope things work out.

i urge you to wait for him, you are 17, right. Way too young to be settling down with someone, but you love him, he loves you and you want to be with him.
what if you cant ever see him again? How would you feel then, after hoping and wishing things might change.
but wait as long as you are prepared for, pray and wish all the things you want to have in your life.

I'd encourage you to wait for him. If he's not the true love of your life, then you'll know later on, but for the mean time you can't say that you wasted it on other people. Love always comes through sooner or later, it just takes patience!! Keep on loving and waiting for him, and like Tara-Kay said, you're only 17 and you have your whole life and you never know what's gonna happen; you guys are soon going to be legal age and with that comes a lot of freedom - from parents anyway. So don't give up on him yet.

I say don't give up... but if HE finds a different girlfriend, then don't let your heart be torn apart.

Well, if you can't have a proper relationship with anyone else, then it seems like you have no choice..
right?

//T.L.//

Thanks so much everyone. You have helped more then you could possibly know. And to answer all your questions...yes, he does love me the same, and he always told me to never forget him while I cant see him, cause he isnt going to forget me. You all are truly amazing, and I thank you so much!!!!!

you must wait for him and yes be there for him in this tough time of his life. stand by him and make him feel the way you feel. don't mess yourself with other guys when you already know your heart out. go for it. god bless.

Literally, allowed, decided, here.

If you don't want to be with anyone else, what's the point of being with them? I'm sure one day someone will come that you love; If not him. You'll just have to wait :]x