My mum hit me...is that abuse?

  • Wings Of Flames
    18 years ago

    I was at home doing something then my mum just started slapping me across the face and head.
    I was so afraid.
    I'm not sure if its abuse or what.

    She did it because I forgot to put her conditioner away.

    She said she was sorry.
    im not sure if i want to forgive her though.

    please help.
    `Emah
    ;(

  • limp
    18 years ago

    That's horrible. :| I don't know if it's abuse, but probably yes.x

  • Matthewsbaby
    18 years ago

    that could be considered that. but im not positive. but im sorry she did that to you. does this happen often?

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    I'm sorry about that. My mother used to do that type of thing to me. Now, as to answer your question, it IS abuse.

    Granted, it may not be as severe as other types, but it is abuse nonetheless. It can be reported... It what I did...

    ~BJ~

  • Wings Of Flames
    18 years ago

    well.
    i remember some childhood stuff where she'd hit me or yell at me.
    she always yells at me for nothing.
    but thats the first time shes hit me that violently.
    ~Emah

  • AGirlWorthFightingFor
    18 years ago

    That sounds like some Joan Crawford "NO MORE WIRE HANGERS!" thing.

    so, yes, abuse...

  • LadyPearl
    18 years ago

    If it's her first time...than I don't know. My dad use to hit my "bum" when I was small. But that was cause he didn't know how to be a father (I'm his first child). He stopped after Grandpa scolded him^-^. Now I'm closest to my dad.

  • Phantasmagoria
    18 years ago

    yes, it is, and there is something very wrong with that. My thing with abuse is "why hurt what you have created?"
    I just hate it when anyone is treated like that, for any reason. And I can say that the reason you were hit was very pathetic and unnessary. So what if she said sorry? It doesn't change that it happened.

  • Vic
    18 years ago

    lmao... compared to what i've been through that's not abuse... just slaps... that's nothing.. if it's about the conditioner.. put it away next time... live in fear. but for me.. it's not abuse. hammers, knives, rice cooker plugs, steel end of the belt, fist... THAT'S abuse.

  • Sean Dohr
    18 years ago

    My mother once kicked me in the ass, literally, because I would not help her clean the fish tank. I then replied, "you might have kicked me in the ass, but you're still cleaning the tank," which led to a second, more abrupt, swift kick to the butt.

  • Sean Dohr
    18 years ago

    Oh, by the way, DarknessDefinesMyHeart, at least you have never been sporked... Yeah, try talkin' about abuse after hearing that...

  • Wings Of Flames
    18 years ago

    i didnt mean to cause an arguement.
    and i know some ppl are worse off.
    but i just wanted advice.

  • Megann Lee
    18 years ago

    Mmm..My Mum hit me once. And I hit her back and told her if she did it again the next hit would hurt more..she never hit me again..

    But that's sweful, getting slapped cause of conditoner? I would not have taken it.. Cause that's just me..I was taught to fight back when I was little..I don't know if thats a good thing..

  • Arcane Blondie
    18 years ago

    Yes, it's abuse. Definately not severe, but still abuse-