*~* The Harsh Thing About Love! *~*

  • Farrah_weiz20
    18 years ago

    The Harsh About It Is....

    Girls can show that they still love you even if they don't
    Boys will not show that they love even if they do..

    Ugh!!!!! Harsh!

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    "Girls can show that they still love you even if they don't"

    ^^ That is harsh. That is why girls are evil.

    "Boys will not show that they love even if they do.."

    ^^ Boys are nice, they don't give you false hope.
    Plus we don't express our emotions the same way as girls.

  • Han84
    18 years ago

    that is harsh but very true..
    we aint evil.. we just like to tell someone we love them if we do love them nothignw rong with it!
    ....
    you blokes play serious dangerous mind game.. lol

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    Guys are afraid of commitment. We don't get emotionally attached like girls, so you can't expect us to tell you we love you unless we really mean it. But then again, all guys are different and all girls are different. Because there are some guys that will say it at the drop of a pin just to get laid. So, yeah it's pretty bad both ways.

    Love isn't harsh. People are.

  • arunima gautam
    18 years ago

    i agree its the people who are harsh in their approach towards love. love is all transforming and healing but its also your stand on it that matters. perception results in reaction. and trust me there will be one point when you have to put your foot down and stand up for your love.

    people decieve, they make believe and thus love is so coloured in so many different opinions. the persons are naive and manipulative and that gives love a bad name. you can happen to love many a times but love happens to some real fortunate people!

  • Mousie
    18 years ago

    The heck guys don't get emotionally attached Darien! Ok, at the time i was 14 and 15 that he would say this... my bf would say to me "will you marry me in 10 years?" and he would ask constantly, and trust me he wasn't kidding! It got old fast, one of the reasons i broke it off... he talked about way into the future too much... he said he would go to whatever college i was going to and find something there... mind you this was the summer b4 our freshman year in highschool... so don't go telling me that guys can't get emotionally attached... he's been with his new gf for 3 months and he's already saying that they're gonna b married when he's 21, and he's 15 while she is 17... so guys can be emotionally attached too.

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    "The heck guys don't get emotionally attached Darien! "

    ^^ uhhhh let me quote something I said.
    "But then again, all guys are different and all girls are different."

    Hmm, an arguement for nothing. Great to know you read everything and not the fine line.

    "this was the summer b4 our freshman year in highschool... so don't go telling me that guys can't get emotionally attached"

    ^^ Did I ever mention your name?.. Why are you taking it so personal?

    Also, FYI, being emotionally attached means attaching your emotions onto someone. He has an optimistic future. That's not being emotionally attached. If you want a better example, then use that same guy. If he were to constantly bug you to get back with him, then he would be attached to you. He didn't. He moved on. You should define what you want to argue before you say anything.

  • blueknight
    18 years ago

    Not all guys are the same girls . not that what you thinking of because im a guy. sometimes theres a guy who afraid to hurt the feelings of the one they love and besides more of the guys didnt cry. so it is hard for us to get hurt but the good thing of this is we love a girl with our whole heart and we can die for them..

    the harsh things about love is there are poeple who surrender their feelings for some reason that no one can understand but by the way this is only my point of view

    Gene Ross

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    no offense but you may want to ask your parents if they dropped you as a child

    Girls can be mean and evil if they want not loving and caring

    Guy can be loving even if they don't *love* someone

    you can't generalize the personalities of people by their sex

  • Farrah_weiz20
    18 years ago

    Oh... And....

    For me at least.....

    I'm always the one who gives way for my friends even though I really like him.....

    And.....

    When you hurt a boy that is a friend you will lose a friend.....

  • blueknight
    18 years ago

    nah the word soory is there and if you tell him that you can be friends again

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    Of course, but it works the other way too.

  • blueknight
    18 years ago

    like what?