please help

  • loves lost angel
    18 years ago

    umm this may sound weird but i met this girl online and i just feel in love with her (im bi if you didnt know) ive been talking to her for a few days and i dont want to scare her or make it osund like im a stalker or anything but i want to tell her how i feel without scaring her and i dont know how can anyone help please im going insane trying to figure this out myself thanks much

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    Maybe try and bring up the subject about being bi. You don't have to say you are, but you could just talk about it, and maybe see how she reacts to that. ...And then maybe you can gain the confidence to tell her you're bi. If she doesn't take that the wrong way, then after awhile, give it a shot by telling her how you feel. =)

  • Ashley
    18 years ago

    I agree with supergirl, But I do think that you have to take the fact that it is a online internet thing and probably not some one you will start something with, ( if she turns out to be bi ), I wouldn't wait to long though, because if it turns out that she isn't bi, you can start focusing on somebody who is, and stay good friends with the internet girl =)

  • Halimah
    18 years ago

    I also agree with super girl but do you really believe that you are in love with this young lady when only you've known her for a short period of time. The best way to talk to her is try not to rush and push to much because she's only going push back . Take things one step at a time and ask her what she feel and think's about bi guys and see what she say's before you tell her that you are.

  • Yazdan
    18 years ago

    I'm going to agree with all of the above. My best friend is bi and she had a very hard time letting the girl she liked that she was bi. I have no idea whats happeneing now, i think their fighting. But ya, the girl i like i've never met. If the girl you met online lives nearby, definitly try to get together with her. A lot of people are a lot different online then they are in person. Personaly i'm a bit more talkative online. I'm also a bit more open. But i knew this one girl whom i hated in person but loved online. Wow, this is off topic. I'm just warning you that she may be totaly different online. That or she could be some creepy old guy. But as for the telling her your bi. Ask her that if you were bi, what would she do. If she reacts well, then maybe wait a bit, then tell her that your bi. Don't just blurt it out of the blue though. Just be careful. If you want to talk over MSN about it, just add yazdanrabadi@hotmail.com