anyone believe in "true" love

i mean true love is i nice idea that theres a person meant for you who completes you but you only meet so few people in your life how can you be sure that the one person you choose is that person. i mean if you met one person every second of your entire life you wouldn't meet everyone. how can you believe that the person you marry is the "one" when there is billions more people that you could love more. just my thoughts but i mean logically with the amount of people in the world compared to the people you meet in your life you won't find your "true" live

That makes a lot of sense, and i've thought about it myself. I believe that a lot of people have a certain "type" of person they are looking for.

When you find th "one", i think of it as meaning, someone who is everything you could have asked for and more. There are billions of people out there, but it's not as if you will get a chance to meet them all. More then half of those people are probably not the "type" you hope for your "true" love to be. Everyone has had at least one vision of how their true love will look, and what their personality will be like. I'm sorry if that was confusing, but those are my thoughts.

Yeah that does make a lot of sense. I think that people have more then one person they're meant to be with. Or it's just pretty much a nice idea.

it's about timing
and location

I believe that its a nice thought and idea. I've thought about too, probably just like many other people in the world. But I think that if you meet the "one" you'll just know or manybe there is alot of people thats right for you. Maybe you just have to pick the one that best fits you and the one that can complete you in every way thats possible.
~DyingBlackRose~

Oh, well, you take the best that you can get :-)
There is always someone better out there, because if your current spouse died, how would you ever hook up again if there was no one else perfect out there left...

I believe in "true" love, yes. But right now, it's more like a legend, a myth or something, I still haven't felt it. I suppose only time can tell.

//T.L.//

I also think that there are several people you might love or care deeply for, but maybe there is only one, or possibly two people who you will be "in love" with. I love several guys that i've either dated or am friends with, but have not yet found "true" love. It's really hard to explain, but i believe in "true" love. I believe there is that special someone regardless of the billions of other people out there.

i want to believe in that but in my case i just believe that the poeple holds their destiny if you choose to love that person and you are willing to love him/her forevor thats a true love FOR YOU
you cant say that thats also a true love for him
beacuse true covers eyes to see no false
darkens reason

I do and I don't... First of all, no one completes anyone. it's not like we're half people until we find "the one" so to speak, but also, I do believe that there is a "one" Not like the ONLY one, but when you find someone you want to marry, they become your "one" in my mind at least...

~BJ~

i really believe in true love. but i take it as like when your getting married they call 'em the "one" as in the one who's pretty much perfect in your eyes, and you could care so much less about their faults. and u date around, to find your true love that gives you "that feeling". like in movies too, there spouse dies, they hook up with other people but they always say, they will never live up to your mom/dad. but people get lonely. its how it is. and you can never lose your true love. cause they'd always be in your heart. and no one is close to perfect, but there are a lot of good people out there, that want to make you smile.
idk it cud just be me. i've been in love with this guy for 3 years. we've been tight friends, and went out a couple of times, he loves me too, but its not the right time to date. i know he looks at hot girls but it doesn't bother me because our relationship is is stronger than that, and i trust him. you always got to put your faith and heart into a relationship. and hope for the best. just one more thing i'd like to add, yes he has broken my heart many times, but i forgave him all those times, you can't hold grudges on people. i read in the bible that "God forgives us for all our deadly sins, so we must forgive others to live in the kingdom of heaven" something like that! lol :D

i suppose it has to do with what you think about "fate." if we are fated to have a true love, you might as well figure that we are fated to meet them. why have someone who's meant for you that you never meet through chance? that's mixing providence and randomness. But also, i think, the emphasis you place on someone can determine what they are to you. what's important to us is what we make important.

I personally don't believe in true love or that there is that "one" person for every one. I believe this because of many reasons, first of which is that I'm a child of two already divorced parents who got a divorce when I was about four or five. I had five brothers and two of them have had countless girlfriends, and the other three never really dated at all. Finally I myself have had many feelings but all just turned out to be infatuation. So what I'm trying to say is that since I have never actually felt, seen, or heard of anyone finding there true love I just don't believe in it. That's just my opinion, of course.

wait till you think you've fallen in love. the fun [really] begins for you, buddy. ^_^

I'd love to believe.. just so damn hard now a days.

Yes....there is true love out there somewhere. You have to wait paitently for it to come to you. Its a feeling that you will never forget. =)

Yes, I believe in true love. It's the most amazing feeling in the world. The problem with true love, is you never know if it's real until after a very long time. When you've been with a person long enough, you know what they are thinking, and they know what you are thinking. They can tell when you are feeling down, angry, happy. They will never do anything to hurt you, or make you cry. And if they do, they are always there to wipe away your tears and make you happy again. They are the first thing you think of when you wake up and the last thing you think of when you go to bed. You smile anytime you think of them. True love is something you will find after years of being in love with someone. After marriage, after having kids. You'll know it after being together, and holding out. It's worth waiting for.

A little better explanation of my earlier post...

I can understand why you think that and question it, but I firmly believe in true love. When you find that person.... you just know... That one person who knows you better than you know yourself and still doesn't judge you... The one that you love with every ounce of your soul... Sure, it's hard to find for a lot of us.... but it's out there.. And it is magnificent...

"The one" thing I kinda agree with, but at the same time, I don't...

I agree with it because:

Some marriages do actually last forever. And the fact that when you're with "the one," you don't even glance at another guy (in my case lol) and think anything but pure thoughts... I mean, the most attractive guy could walk up to me, and I would just say hi to be polite, because I only have eyes for "the one"... I can't really describe it well lol.

I minorly disagree with it because:

Most marriages do end in divorce.... and even if the marriages end in the death of a spouse, the widowed usually finds another, which then becomes his/her new "the one"....

But I mainly agree... Because reguardless, the widowed will always think fondly of his/her deceased spouse.

So, through all this gibberish lol, I do believe in "True love" AND "The one"

~BJ~

true love definately exsists and call me a hopeless romantic but i believe in true love although i never use to..not until i feel completely head over heels in love

the way I see it yes there is such a thing as true love people are out there that you have not met but how many of them would work out because of distance, I believe that what ever is controlling this brings the people they are supposed to meet together that people meet the right people simply because of all the out standing cercumstances

awwah.. i beleive in true love.. because i am in love.. :)

Yes there is true love:
true love: does not hit, does not call names, does not yell, does not put you down, does not embarrass you True Love will touch you in public, will hold your hand, will take you anywhere, will listen when you talk, will care when your sick, cares about your friends True Love: will share your food, know what your thinking and will finish your sentences!!

i used to be a strong believer in true love..id still like to believe that it exists, but im a hopeless romantic..

hey waz up well you do have a point and it is true you never really know who it is going to be but i think you feel the vibe when it's the ONE but other then that you have a great and goood point