all of your advice paid off!

well, all of you guys that helped on the last post i had put up, the one about being confused about this guy that was totally flirting with me... well some of you told me to wait, or maybe move on a little bit but don't completely give up, keep that hope... well i did, i didn't move on, but i kept that hope... well it paid off... he has feelings for me, and will most likely be breaking up with his gf soon... i'm in love, and so is he, with me... i'm sooo happy thank you all! i just wanted to let you know that it's all worked out and thank you for all of your help!

Mousie

Unfortunately that soounds terrible. He is going to break up with his girlfriend to be with you? If I were you, I would feel bad. I mean, if you were that girl then you would be depressed. I wouldn't be surprised if I came on one day to the sadness/depression forum and heard that girl's story.

Also, not to bring you down or anything. You haven't even been with this guy. I don't think you should call this love. Maybe after being with him for several months then you can call it love. Right now you are lusting over him.

Lastly, but mostly what you would like to hear. Congrats. I hope it works out for you, and I hope it really does become love. Take care and good luck.

Well, thank you for the congrats at least... i know it sounds terrible, i do feel horrible about it... but a lot of it she brought on herself too, so he's not "breaking up with her to be with me" as you put it... i don't feel good about it no, but i'm sorry that the little piece of happiness i have is overriding that horrible feeling... ok so we don't "love" each other, i didn't mean it that way... but i feel more than lust for him, and we've been best friends and stuff for a while now... i know him well, and he knows me well... we'll just say this is already working out better than my last relationship and we're not even together yet. But thanks for that congrats

Well, I'm not saying you shouldn't enjoy your happiness. If I were you, I would wait a while. I wouldn't rush in to a relationship with him just yet. I mean, if you both like eachother a lot, you wouldn't mind waiting a few days to 'officially' start dating now would you?.. Well, like I said. Good luck and hope things go well.