Losing a friend you've known for so long..

  • lOVER
    18 years ago

    So basically not to complain or what not. But was just curious, i'm sure most of you.. have lost contact or cut someone who you've know for so long out of your life.

    Before i moved countries, i cut my close long time friend Jaymee out of my life.. mostly because she had a bad kind of .... influence on me i guess and lived a very down graded life.. and just wasnt any good to be around.
    And in a way i'm happy that we're not friends again but then in another way i feel really upset, you know what i mean?

    Anyways let me know if you have a similar story or something x)

    xxxx

  • Amanda Lou
    18 years ago

    Yeah I've been there and done that...My best friend for 6 years just one day decided she didnt want to be my friend anymore and stopped talking to me i tryed to talk to her but she just walked away. I mean we were unseperatible everything i did or went she was right there and vise versa. but i did everything in the world for her but one day at lunch she said she was goen to sit with other people and i said ok ill talk to you tomorrow and i approached her and she walked away..and that was the end of our friendship..kinda weird..but thats life

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    I know what you mean about feeling happy and upset about it at the same time. I recently stopped talking to someone I was pretty good friends with. She always got into trouble, and would try to drag me along with her. First it was little things, and then she tried getting me to smoke cigerettes and weed, then tried to get me to sneak out of my house and stuff. After I stopped talking to her I was releaved but sad becuase besides all that she was good to talk to and we had a lot of fun.

  • LoreNz0
    18 years ago

    im afraid i have too. my best buddy in the whole world moved counrty and i never really kept in contact with him : (. hi did come and stay in my counrty for a litle while and just whn i started getting to no him again he had tp leaf to another counrty again. i dont wanna keep losing him he was the greatest friend a guy could ever have, we shared soo much in common and just enjoyed each others company. i miss u leroy

  • **Just Her**
    18 years ago

    people don't realize how valuable friendships are. once you loose a close friend, you lose a part of yourself. lots of people don't realize the importance of a friend until they are gone....

  • susan
    18 years ago

    Well friends just comes and go. Though I try to keep back in touch with old friends, but sometimes they don't reply back. I guess as we go on with our lives, I notice that things slowly changes. Its just something we all got to accept and move on. I have lost some contact with old friends, but its alrites. But the ones that I still talk to and keep in touch with I'm grateful for that. =)

    susan