very serious problem here....

i really hated myself for what i did to my friend!! it started when i was playing gunbound with her and started saying bad things (but not at her) and suddenly i get mad at her!! like im going seed mode or something!! because she never talked to me even when i said hi to her and when i ask her something she never replies!! she only talks to me when she have a new avatar or ask me if her avatar looks great...even when i told her i was going to america on december and she did'nt even care!!..and now because of that i used my other account and started yelling bad things at her!! i could'nt control myself!! and now she knew that character was me and she never talked to me anymore...and i said it's okay if she hated me...but it never really changed anything at all...she still hates me!! now im too shy to show myself to her and talk to her properly...I HATE MYSELF REALLY!!!how will i apologize or talk to her? please help me!!

please help me....

She sounded like a bad friend anyway, to be honest
if she ignored u and stuff :(
dont worry about her, shes just one person
if shes going to be like that fine
show her that u dont need her and make some nice new friends :)
regards
Sarah xox

I dont agree Sarah I think she was the bad friend! You messed up by being a nasty vindictive person towards your friend and you find yourself alone and lonely your having regrets about being so selfish and mean and you want her friendship back - truth is you dont deserve her! I hate to be harsh but its the truth hopefully for next time around you will learn the only way to have a friend is to be one...

Why hating yourself for someone who didn't care about you in the first place?? Just let it go and find other friends! There are a lot more people in the world then just her!

I think that you and your friend were both wrong. Maybe mostly you. Do you know why she was ignoring you? Did you even Bother to ask her? She could've had a very good reason for it. Or maybe she didn't realize she was doing it. You shouldn't have yelled at her, and she shouldn't have ignored you in the first place (unless there was a reason). Just talk to her if you still want her as a friend. Otherwise just move on, pretty much is the only other thing you can do.

Heather,
I had a friend one time who suddenly refused to talk to me. I had no clue what was going on and I asked her on nummerous time. It became very frustrating because she never gave me an answer and was nasty on top of it. One day I asked her to talk and she said she would. She try to take of without talking to me. It was then that I basically slammed her against the wall. I was so mad by that time because I had no clue what I had done wrong. Once my daughter was born she came over to visit. The reason she didn't speak to me for so long was because I had joked around with a boy she had liked.
Now that I'm older, I would let it go because honestly it is not worthed!! But it is so darn frustrating!

One of my friends just... doesn't really talk to me anymore. I asked another friend, and he said that she did the same to him.
I think since she turned 16 and just, well, started to hang out with older, more "sophisticated" people, and forgot her other pals. *sigh* People change.

//T.L.//