i'm going of my nut here....

ok, well this man started texting me, he knew my mate but doesn't get on with her anymore. He's 22, and lives about 3 hours away, and we've never met.
So we start talking and texting and sent each other pictures and we got on great, he said we could be together and all this lovey dovey stuff. I go along with it starting to get quite emotionally involved, which is very rare for me, as i'm quite easy come, easy go.
so, then he admits that he's leading me on, and is actually in love with this other pregnant girl who hes met at community service, he gave her his number but she wouldn't give him hers.
so i've had a week of listening to his problems and trying to make him feel better without sounding jealous.
Yet... he stil says loving things to me but is this girl might be meeting him in the week.
I really don't know if to leave it now and say goodbye, or to wait and see if this girl does contact him, and be there for him if she doesn't, and see where it ends up.
I really do feel something for him, but i just don't know what to do.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

i would say goodbye and walk away before you get hurt.....but if you do have feelings for his guy stay with him and find out if this girl is talking to him.....

wait it out i think

i think that you should just be STRICT friends with him, since he has "other things" going on. He may be a great person and all, but you shouldn't let a guy take advantage of you just bcuz another girl won't take him.its like being best friends with someone and they don't want to be yours anymore so u find a "backup" friend. one who isn't as great, but will do for now. ya know? if you have feelings for him, u really need to confront him, and make sure he doesn't lie to you, or try to be all "lovey dovey" on you. just be careful of every step you take, and examine it b4 you make the next move.

i wud say gudby aswell he seems like the uncarin type

Okay, is this girl pregnant with his baby??? Little confused here...
Anyway, be there as a friend. It never hurts to be a friend and to be there for someone in need, even if you still have feelings for him. Other then that I would just let it go.

no the girl is pregnant with some other boys baby, sorry didn't make that clear.
The latest is he's confused with this girl and she just keeps driving him away. So now he's saying he wants to come down and stay with me.

Hes keeping you at an arms length in case this other girl doesn't warm to his advances...his using you to boost his ego - you are not the holder of his heart - sorry! Move on before you get more emotionally invested in this and end up being hurt!

AHHHHHHHH! its not getting any better or worse, i've had a week of tempting him out of suicide, as he's told me he wants to end it about 10 ten times.
Lots of people say they want to end it but because i don't know it i don't know wether its talk or the real thing. This girl has given him her number but rarely answers her phone or texts back. So again i have to listen to these problems, yet he says he can't be bothered with her, and he'd quite happily go out with me. he says 2 different things and i really am stuck.